Obviously, if you go as far as to ask someone out you have to have some attraction to that person. At the same time, if someone asks you out it is implied that they like you. However, let's say that the situation is that you like a particular girl (or guy) and you know that you have certain feelings about her (or him) in the beginning of the relationship. For instance, if you have recognized the person for a while (whether it be at school or work) but you have never spoken to them on that level. So you have noticed things about them that you like but you havn't never told them about that. Why do you think that people would have a problem with being told how someone feels about them at the beginning of relationships or when the person first approaches them? I know that some say it scares them away but, it's not like they are saying that they want to have a long-term & committed relationship from the moment that they are meeting the person so why would someone be scared away by honesty?
2007-03-21 15:20:57 · 3 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they have baggage and they have been brainwashed with all the things they hear and read in the media and from other people. Nothing wrong with someone being open and expressing their thoughts or feelings. When is it ever the right time to tell someone? is there a date or a time frame? it is right, when it is right for you.
2007-03-23 04:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by monalisa79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying, but I think that the safer choice is to let someone know your initial feelings later in the relationship. At that point in the relationship, the words should feel romantic, not pushy.
2007-03-21 15:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by ng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that completely depends on the person
2007-03-21 15:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nohbdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋