Me & My Gf are on a break?

Question

We both decided it's best that we take a break,, cuz we had been getting into fights alot... But as of the last 3 weeks, things have been going really good.. and i want to get back together with her.. but it's so hard, cuz she says she needs time.. and sometimes she says she wants to get back together, and other times she says "is it so bad if we're friends?"....

Am I going for something impossible? Does this mean that we are only meant to be friends? We've been pretty serious for over a year,, and we both say we're eachothers world, and that even though we're on a break, we're not hooking up with anyone else. I love her more then anything, should I just let her go?

We both decided it's best that we take a break,, cuz we had been getting into fights alot... But as of the last 3 weeks, things have been going really good.. and i want to get back together with her.. but it's so hard, cuz she says she needs time.. and sometimes she says she wants to get back together, and other times she says "is it so bad if we're friends?"....

Am I going for something impossible? Does this mean that we are only meant to be friends? We've been pretty serious for over a year,, and we both say we're eachothers world, and that even though we're on a break, we're not hooking up with anyone else. I love her more then anything, should I just let her go?

Added:

We both have depression problems,, she's medicated on Prozac,, i'm in therapy for Dysthymia.. That too was also a problem,, cuz our cycles always seemed to clash, in a sort.

I can always fix problems temporarily, but they eventually come back to kick me in the face,, any tips on breaking those habits

Answer 1

Have a little patience and see how it plays out. If you really love her give her the space she needs and let her figure stuff out. When she does want to talk to you pay careful attention to what she tells you. Mean while take control of the one thing that you can, that fellow you see in the mirror. Think about some of the stuff she has been saying to you when you fight. If any of it is really on you then be honest with yourself and start dealing with it. Instead of worrying about what is going in her head start cleaning up your own back yard. This is an opportunity for both of you to grow. If it works out everyone is happy. If not hopefully you walk away learning from your mistakes so that you don't repeat them in the next relationship.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If things are going much better during this break you're taking, then you need to pay attention to it! I suspect that your girlfriend isn't interested in being a "girlfriend" any more but would rather be friends and doesn't know how to tell you about it. So, she pulls away, you push, and then you both fight. Let her go and see what develops....for the both of you!

Answer 4

make a deadline sweetie and try hard to understand she may need time to clear her head don't hook up with anyone either in the future that could give her a quick disicion make a date to meet her pur your feelings into your words let her know how much u lovw her and how much you care that the pain you are feeling when u r away from her is getting hard to bare and ask her if she wants to be with you or if you should let her go.

Answer 5

if you love her more than anything, then dont let her go.. she never said she didnt wanna get back to you.. she just said she needs time... and as long as you both arent looking at other people... you are fine concerning other boys in the equation.. ... i think you just need to give her some time... and i know as a guy... its a hard thing to do... but if you really love her.. just be her friend.... and she will come to you eventually

Answer 6

Let the love takes its course.