i am scared that if i tell this girl i like her she might not be as good of a friend as she is now now we hang out alot and we are hanging out over our spring break next week i think i wont to go to the movies with her and i pay and she pick the movie and goodies witch i would pay but i dont wont to make it ovius that i like her so much because i dont wont her thinking that she is like a godess to me i just like her like in middle school if you liked a girl you were obsessed and i dont wont this girl thinking that!
2007-03-21 15:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by Glen 111111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she might just think that is cute because she is wanted but yeah i would like that but you have to be very careful because i went out with my best guy friend and like we werent the same for like a year and i think that we still arent the same we used to be able to talk to each other about anything now we are a little limited but its getting a lot better just be very careful you dont want to get that friendship gone because it is hard..
2007-03-21 15:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel Like answering your queries... But I am in the same situation like you... Only that I have gone one step ahead of you... And when i confess my feelings to her, she was like :" Well i think that it could be better if we be friends first..." .. My heart definitely went sinking... However I do not know if I still stand a chance by this sms I have received... Anyway, even after I have confess my Love to her, she still has contact with me often... So, u may treat me like one of Ur outcome scenarios... Anw, can any1 tell me should I give up on her or not??
2007-03-21 15:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nephoros.bs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell her. If she doesn't feel the same way, it might be a little akward at first, but then it should go back to the way it used to be between the two of you. If she does like you too, it's up to you to decide what happens next.
2007-03-21 15:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you really enjoy your friendship and you always want to be friends, then ask if she would be offended if you asked her out and if she says no thats fine you just don't want it to affect you friendship. Life is too short to live with regret. Take care Heather
2007-03-21 15:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest it does change your relationship. sometimes in good ways and sometimes in bad. if the girl doesnt feel the same she might feel awkward. like she cant be herself around you anymore. she will most likely still be a good friend but to be safe i wouldnt just come out and say you like her. if she figures it out and isnt weirded out tehn you might sya something. but i would play it safe and maybe ask one of her other best friedns what they think
2007-03-21 15:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It definitly changes the friendship. And once you cross that line, there's no turning back. Take caution, and only act if you're very confident.
2007-03-21 15:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Neil Rawson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be a man, don't be scared, and ask her.
Just be casual, and act cool and not all involved.
Good luck, guy.
2007-03-21 15:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well are you doing all this because you like her and want to date her? if so, it turns out she does not like you like that then you are wasting your money and its time to move on. ask her and see, you have nothing to lose. as of now, you are just her sugar daddy
2007-03-21 15:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by whosajiggawhat? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She likely likes you to be hanging out with you that much.
Ask her... What I learnt is that you don't know until you try... So try already :)
2007-03-21 15:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by freezie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything..if she wants you more then a friend...let her make the first move.
2007-03-21 15:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by whirangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋