I saw my ex-boyfriend today at the university that we both go to. It was awkward. I was outside walking on the sidewalk and I saw a familiar face. I realized it was my bf. It was rush hour so the sidewalk was very crowded. When he came closer uo we both just smiled and said hi, we didn't really have cance to talk so it was so crowded on the sidewalk. So after his we both went our separate ways. BTW, he was comig out of the subway station, while I was walking towards the subway station. He told me he drives to school, is he lying cuz he obviously took the subway to school? He still says hi to me on msn and we even saw a movie together 2 months ago, when HE called me. Why do you think we didn't talk more today when we bumped into each other? Was he trying to get away from me or is it cuz it was crowded? After the movie, he told me that he wants to "see me once in awhile" but why? when HE ended it one year ago? Why he wanna be friends now? BTW, we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving sex
2007-03-21 14:49:52 · 15 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for marriage, If he really wants to be friends now then why didn't he stop and talk to me more when we saw each other at school today? Is he playing with my emotions? BTW, it has been over for one year and we dated for a very short time. Why didn't he talk to me MORE today?
2007-03-21 14:50:49 · update #1
Ummm I don't know...maybe cause it was rush hour and he had to get to class or be some where important. I mean why didn't you stop and talk to him ??. If he still wants to be your friend and see you it means that he still has some feelings there. Maybe he wants to get back together with you. I mean do you still want him.??
2007-03-21 15:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... Why on earth would you continue to show any type of interest in this person. You REALLY need to move on. Find another love interest or get a hobby. What you are doing isn't healthy, and it won't be long until you develop some type of serious relationship-stigma based on your experience with this person. Although it is a nice afterthought, you should NEVER expect a friendship from an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. It is in the same vein as "There is not such thing as an opposite sex platonic friendship. At least party has deeper feelings for the other." Move on, quick, before you drive yourself crazy trying to figure out what went wrong with a person who isn't really worth the trouble.
2007-03-21 14:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by THUB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe El Loco. Also, it can be that he's egocentric and thinks extra approximately himself than approximately both you or his ex-female friend. It's comprehensible that a boy could be immature whilst he is younger, however you do not need to submit with it. I could begin seeing any one higher if I have been you. Life is simply too brief to waste it on men and women who do not deal with you good.
2016-09-05 11:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by salvalzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you see your friends and seems like you guys are kind of good friends then you stop and have a casual talk it them like how was your day or something and he didnt do that maybe he just thought that you didnt want to talk to him because he didnt really think that you guys were as close as you think you are but i would call him or text him or ask him on msn why he didnt stop and chat for a min. because we all know that you would have done it for him even if there was a million people in there but yeah i would just come out and ask.
2007-03-21 14:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a million reasons why he didn't talk to him. Why didn't you talk to him more? Any answer that you come up with for that question is a possible reason why didn't talk to you. Maybe he is wondering about the same question that you are asking.
He probably just wants to hang with you more because he enjoyed the time that you spent together. He may not want to date you but he wants to hang with you. Since he broke up with you, he probably thinks that you will be happy to be close to him. If you want to be just friends with him then it's fine to hang with him. If you have any thoughts that you may have a chance of getting back together then you shouldn't.
2007-03-21 14:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously move on and stop this obsessing crap. Get over it its not good to keep the wound open and festering. Let it heal next time you see him turn around and go the other way do this for 1 month and you will feel better. MOVE ON. Good Luck
2007-03-21 14:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow why are u complicating things so much
did you expect him to stop in the middle of a human stampede to start a conversation with u?
he probably does drive to school but maybe had car troubles so had to use public transport that day
he probably still enjoys your company so that's why he wanted to hang out with you, but it doesn't mean he has to do it monthly
stop thinking so much
2007-03-21 14:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Moo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Long winded aren't ya...it's good that you are saving yourself for marriage...um I really don't know what to tell you ask him if he wants to be friends
2007-03-21 14:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by anthonymperkins05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you at a university when it's obvious from your writing that you are in the 5th grade?
2007-03-21 14:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's your EX! It's over. Second of all, he knows he's not going to "get any" from you. Figure it out.
2007-03-21 14:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋