I have this friend who I've known since like 1986 (we graduated high school together in '87) and she's never been married. She's recently taken interest in a 57 year old blind man. (her mom is 62) He wants her to try and get on disability and to eventually marry her. He has grandkids and she has a niece and a nephew. I don't see a positive in this. Any oppinions?
2007-03-21 14:45:29 · 10 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't like the sound of it. Has he got an inheritance or something? What will her obligations be and is she realistic about that?
Now I know what MYOB stands for... no I don't think that it is. If you care for and value your friend, then I think you could try and exert some healthy influence on the situation - sensitively. What are friends for? Don't be judgemental to her because you may just alienate her with the opposite effect to that intended.
2007-03-21 22:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a MYOB thing. I'm a little confused about why he wants her to go on disability because you didn't mention her being disabled in any way. If she isn't able to work though, I can understand him wanting to be sure she has some income and security before they marry. I don't see any problem with his age or his blindness.
2007-03-21 14:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didnt give to much detail all i have to say is this old man rich??? because that might be why but yeah i dont think that like 15 years is that bad but whenyou get to like im betting like 30 plus then that isnt any good
2007-03-21 14:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way it is a MYOB thing. Maybe give her advice, but don't get to into her personal life. She will come to you for advice. It's not your life so don't worry about it.
2007-03-21 14:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe u should MYOB!!!! People do what they want just be a friend that's it.
2007-03-21 14:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's best to leave them to sort things out. Whether they make it or not is not for us to decide. When there's a will, there'll be a way!
2007-03-21 14:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. MYOB
2007-03-21 14:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS TO STAY CLEAR OF HIM.
HOW HAPPY CAN SHE REALLLY BE. TELL HER TO WAKE UP AND GO OUT WITH SOMEONE HER OWN AGE AND NOT TO ROB THE GRAVE.
2007-03-21 14:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just wierd for her to date him but if its what she really wants.....
2007-03-21 14:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's happy, what do you care?
2007-03-21 14:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋