i absoultly love him...no questions asked. i would do so much for him....we have dated on and off for the past year....but sometimes it feels like he has me on a string, like a puppy following him. if he says jump its like i say how high, i HATE this about our relationship....what should i do?
2007-03-21 14:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has a string on u cuz ur in love wit him. its nuthin bad it just means u 2 r goin sum where so tell him striaght up how it is and that u 2 need to be toghther until u guys knoe its time to end it. for now thou i think u should tell him and love eachother cuz thats y he has the stupid string cuz i have one too lol bestz luck
2007-03-21 14:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell himhow u feel and learn to put ur foot down u can be in love without being on a string u have to give yourself the power to do what u want to do and control yourself because it seems like more of a issue with yourself rather then him
2007-03-21 21:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by ricpres123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do??? I bet you know what to do! You know if you keep on allowing yourself to be consumed away by his dominant spirit. Like some spider sucking the blood (life) from its victim. You will fail to be half the respectable woman you are today. These kind of things happen when we fail to rightly judge those we give ourselves to. Moving quicker than is safe. People need to remember that when we first meet a person we meet his/her best half. Lest they fail to reel us in.
2007-03-21 22:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by cHeAp_ShOt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start to distance yourself from him a bit. I know us latinas love to be around our man and all, but start hanging out with your girlfriends so you can see that everything doesn't revolve around him. Make sure he feels the same about you too or else you may get hurt.
2007-03-21 21:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chiquita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like he is using you. I would find out straight from him what he feels, if he is unsure. Move on. If it is meant to be he will come back with a new outlook and make it worth your time and his. He will be the one to jump if you want him to. So to speak.
2007-03-21 21:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship, you both have to be equal. So I would suggest you talk about this with him, and if he doesn't seem to agree then I think it wouldn't be a long-lasting and good relationship...It's better to have a boyfriend that is like your equal and isn't like the boss in your relationship.
2007-03-21 21:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by ifwewereamovie19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to actually talk to your man. Tell him how you feel. If he loves you as much as you love him, then he will gladly talk to you about it. All couples have little quirky things about each other that they can't stand, but buy addressing each other about them, they can reinforce their relationship and make it stronger.
2007-03-21 21:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person. Learn to say no.
Sounds like he's using you as his toy whenever he wants.
Resolve your feelings for your father. << Read and study this, until you understand, it's not an insult.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 21:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a yes person all the time, I'm sure he will love you just as much if you so no from time to time.
2007-03-21 21:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.....maube u should take a break. i mean this guy might be controlling u. dont let any guy control u, beacsue when they do, at the end ure going to get hurt.
2007-03-21 21:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋