was supposed to meet this guy for the first tikme today. He said that he had some stuff to do and that when he's done he'll call me. this talk happened at 11 am and it's now 9 05 pm and he never called or texted me! here's the rude part: he is online right now, got on like 5 min ago meaning he's at home and he never said hi! i had to ask this because i get offended by stuff like this all the time so i want to know if i'm overreacting or not? also if he does call me, cause he has a tendency to call me at 11 pm, say he does that and ask me to meet him tomorrow or even later on, i'm gooing to say no! is that wrong of me? should i give another chance??? honestly i thinkt hat what he did was so rude and i am so pissed!! even if he couldnt make it he could have called or txted!
2007-03-21 14:30:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would say if wants a second chance he has to work for it. And NO I would not answer the phone tonight if try's to call, And if he texts you tomorrow you can tell him he was an a## and if he wants your forgiveness that he will have to work for to prove he is worth a second chance. There are way to many men out there to fight for one that does not deserve it. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2007-03-22 17:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by mystictoad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't pick up the phone at 11 pm! That is rude to begin with.
He didn't follow through, okay everyone deserves a second chance. However, this could be a pattern - him taking people for granted.
When you next talk with him, he wants to meet, tell him there is no need to call ahead, just agree to meet in a public place at a reasonable time, cafe, restaurant.
Wait there for 15 minutes only - if he doesn't show, leave and forget him.
2007-03-22 11:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would consider that to be rude, but maybe other circumstances came up. Maybe he forgot? Maybe something came up at the last minute? Yeah, I can understand how you would be mad. But it could have been worse, he could have said a time and place and just stood you up. Instead of letting yourself get worked up about it all day ( which I tend to do, let myself get reallly mad knowing that when the time comes I'll make my husband feel realllly bad), perhaps you could have called or texted him. Maybe just a simple text like, hey what's up? Maybe he did have an explanation, maybe not. If he did, hear him out, if he didn't bummer, let him know how you felt. Sorry you had a rough day!
2007-03-22 01:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Gone2PickApples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋