I was standing at the door of my choir classroom, waiting for school to get out and all of the girls were telling stories about their first kisses. i am 13 and still havent gotten mine yet. i am a christian and i think it would be fun to save my first kiss for the guy that i will marry. i dont want to be in a hurry to grow up because what is the fun in that, Right?! i need some support or advice or any comments for that matter! Guys, put in your opinion too! thanks!
2007-03-21 14:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by allforjesus2793 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really try and dont do anything stupid to achive your goal, i think you can. otherwise, if you just give up, you might not be able to. good luck though!
2007-03-21 14:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first kiss is something that only you can allow to happen. You cant always help the way you feel about another guy he might be a good guy but not everything you want in a husband. You are young and if you are wanting to save your first kiss for who plan to marry then you have a while you dont have to kiss the first guy who says he likes you.
2007-03-21 21:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally respect your Christian beliefs but personally i don't think that you can save a first kiss for marriage. Sex of course if you have a lot of self constraint, but a kiss isn't all that harmful. You're still very young and your first kiss will always be remembered, but chances are your first kiss won't be with your future husband.
As for now, you're 13, don't be in any rush to get married.
I wish you luck on the first kiss but from my experience although i cared for the first guy i kissed when you're young it's hard to end up spending forever with someone. It's okay, because your first kiss will always hold a special place in your heart, no matter who it's with.
2007-03-21 21:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you ever want to do that? No offense, but marrying someone without ever kissing then is not a good idea! The one that will be your first kiss will come, dont put a time limit on it! Save something more special for your wedding night, not a kiss!
2007-03-21 21:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You can save your virginity for marriage if you're determined. But your first kiss? That's ridiculous. I don't think that's ever happened in modern america, unless the girl was some hideous monster. You don't need it right now. You're really young and it's normal not to have been kissed yet. Boys aren't real aggressive yet. But you're going to feel like a retard if you're 20 and never been kissed.
2007-03-21 21:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im 13(nearly 14) and Ive had a few girlfriends. If you believe that kissing before marriage is morally wrong, then dont do it. But Christianity does not condemn pre-marital kisses.
2007-03-21 21:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's cute! I haven't had mine yet and I'm 16, and I don't feel like I'm missing anything. My mom didn't have her first kiss until she met my dad, and my dad says the first one was like getting smacked in the face with a two-by-four. I first kiss like that and still dating afterwards means the relationship is going to last. :)
2007-03-21 21:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rebeccah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting for marriage causes a lot of problems. It leads to rushing into marriage. It leads to not knowing whether a partner is compatible. It leads to bad marriages that break up, whether or not kids have been born first.
I suggest that postpone as LITTLE as you can until marriage without convincing yourself you're going to burn in eternal hellfire.
On the other hand, at age 13 there's no rush for ANYTHING. This is not a race.
One piece of advice -- "practicing" in relationships IS important. If you're going to be really slow about having romantic relationships, than I recommend you go out of your way to have male FRIENDS, just so you have practice in understanding males.
2007-03-21 22:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a first kiss is special but not that big of a deal that it from me i kiss a guy just to see it i would date him if he was a bad kisser i would just find some one else i'm married now but i still think of the guy who kissed me an took my breath away then 8 mth later took my virginaty but he is also married an we still talk about geting back togeher awwwwww
2007-03-21 21:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by kellie h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that is a very awesome idea.. i am also a Christian.. but i have only kissed one girl.. one of my ex-gf's... but we are no longer together .. it is good to save your first kiss .. and your first time.... for the guy you marry .. i think you should wait ... it would be sooo awesome .. take care and God bless...
2007-03-21 21:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by sammie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here.
I usually just stay quiet and change the subject.
I feel left out.. =[
I don't think you you be able to save it for the guy that you will marry because you never know for sure. I have chior too!
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good luck!
2007-03-21 21:18:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋