My husband and his co workers have a weekly lunch get together, and his co workers usually take turns buying lunch for the group. It`s my husband`a turn, however, my hubby is to cheap to buy them lunch, he wants me to cook it for him, ( chili). I`m too tired and sick to cook this week, but my hubby promised them chili, what should I do?
2007-03-21 13:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by lost2day 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Another thing they treat him terribly, today they threw ice at him while he was in the bathroom, my husband is sensitive. They injured his privates, the ice was huge...
2007-03-21 14:02:52 · update #1
Print this, hand it to him then point him in the direction of your supermarket:
http://www.cooksrecipes.com/beef/1st-annual-worlds-championship-chili-recipe.html
Give him a kiss on the cheek, a smack on the bum and wish him the best of luck with his new hobby of cooking.
2007-03-21 14:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by trentrockport 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
His promise, his chili. Let him stew over it or, barring that, go out to Wendy's and get several big bowls and dump it in a different pot.
If he didn't even have the courtesy to ask, and especially if you're sick, then you don't owe him a single thing.
And don't let him guilt you either - if he's being treated badly at work it's probably because that's the same way he's treating others. If not, then he needs to grow some independance and stick up for himself.
None of that requires you to cook :)
Blessings,
Zimmi
2007-03-21 21:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Zimmia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this is the time to have a "talk" with him. Tell him that since you are "Sick and tired" he is either going to have to make that chili up, and you can be nice enough to have it hot and ready when they get there for him. (slowcooker works awesome) or he is going to have to crack open his wallet.
He has really bad co-workers if they treat him like that. he should really vaseline up the toilets so they get Slimed when they sit down at work.
2007-03-22 00:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sionainn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He promised, he cooks. If he asked you nicely beforehand you might have considered it.
I don't know if I would want to cook for people who are mean to me anyway. Point this out to him if he doesn't see it himself.
2007-03-22 00:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by woman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you cook the chili, than you clean the mess, than you detail his car.
2007-03-21 21:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey's Franchise 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If HE promised it then HE should start cooking.
2007-03-21 21:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by lance4uok 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋