why is it that all guys ever have on the mind is sex? or messing around? being perverted, or just always thinking about sex? why isnt there any guys out there that just want you for you? help any one?!
2007-03-21 13:29:04 · 28 answers · asked by Niece!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the more bad guys you go wit, the more it will be worth it wen u find the right one. just wait. theres someone out there for everyone
2007-03-21 13:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I dunno for sure but I was told it is the Y chromosone females are X chromosone. Men are Y. This means they are missing the extra leg that would make them X and therefore more resonable and understandable. Of course that doesn't help you a lot. My advice is try to not dwell upon it. Some guys are more GUY than others. Not all men are total jack***es all the time. Although most of them are that way part of the time. Never expect a guy to completely uderstand you. He never will just as you will never completely understand him. As little girls we are told fairy tales of princes who understand & love their woman you know the story. happily ever after. Sadly these fairy tales only add to our disenchantment in real relationships. Look to your girl friends for understanding. Find a decent guy if you can and when he is a jerk kick his butt if need be. If he loves you he'll be back. I hear guys grow up some in their late 50s. Whats less attractive than a young guy with nothing on his mind but sex? An old geezer with nothing on his mind but sex. Of course shortly after that they develope alzheimers and die. Well thats the way the fairy tale really goes I'm sad to say. So find other things besides the dream lover to fulfill your life.
Best of luck to you. I hope it is some comfort knowing that your only one in a zillion or so women who feel this way.
2007-03-21 20:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are lots of guys who would like a girl just because of her. ANd some guys are always wanting to have sex are too immature to realize that their's more fun even without sex. SO before you go out with a guy just tell him what is expected of him if you go out with him and it helps from having to be fighting him off all night.
2007-03-21 20:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it seems like that...not all guys are like that...many guys do just think about sex but you have to find the guy who wants sex (sorry but don't plan on finding many guys who don't---deep down every guy wants sex) but you need the guy who wants sex but wantsother stuff too
sex isnt everything...so maybe if you keep having the same problem, you are going for the same type of people...
next time you meet a new guy, don't compare him to guys from the past and even if he's someone you wouldn't ordinarily date, give him a try, you never know maybe he's exactly what you need but you've been looking for the wrong people...
2007-03-21 20:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Natty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same, some have a more active hormone than other, its also about the way they were brought up, if there's anyone to blame, its the mother, who toll us what was good and bad, and yes there's a lot of men that look for something deeper than just sex
2007-03-21 20:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by chidoonekenobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about ages and stages.
some boys get older but never grow up.
while it is normal to think about sex, when it becomes a preoccupation above all other considerations, it cheapens the relationship, the other person and also themselves.
you just need to be patient and find the right guy. some are actually interested in getting to know who you really are before leaping into a sexual relationship and there are really men who still believe in marriage before sex.
good luck.
2007-03-21 20:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by stonechic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reason #1- If guys didn't think about sex, no one would, and the human race would die out pretty quickly.
Reason #2- Guys are just different than girls. girls play with barbies, guys play with GI Joe. and would u really want a guy who thought, acted, and behaved like a girl anyway?
2007-03-21 20:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan : 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hun the sooner you learn this the better...guys suck and sometimes they are scum...but if you think of it from there p.o.v. then they think we only talk about shoes and make up and girl stuff...but you'll find a guy who loves you for you just like i did but hes still perverted the thing to do is be perverted with them its kinda fun...lol
2007-03-21 20:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't always have sex on their minds, if you put it out there and tease us then yes, we will have sex, but you women are just as horny most of the time. Its also just hormonal, sex is a integrated part of our culture and genetics, so really you shouldn't be blaming men, but your genetic makeup
2007-03-21 20:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by aaron s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys just bring that subject up or be perverted just to look cool. but in reality, every single guy is perverted.. and i mean every one. i know this one guy that seems really innocent but he brought his guy side out when he got a girlfriend. it's not that bad that a guy is perverted too.
2007-03-21 20:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by hannah 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, there are guys out there who just want you for you!
That doesn't mean they don't want sex also!
Hell, every girl I have ever met wants sex just as much as
us guys do, so try to rephrase your question and leave out
the sweeping generalities!
2007-03-21 20:34:35 · answer #11 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋