i have been with my bf for about 2 years and i love him. im 14 and i want to know if you think im to young to have sex. alot of people already think we have. i am ready but i want your opinion.
2007-03-21 13:20:00 · 21 answers · asked by dramakitty42494@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
14 is a little too fast.
i understand people have their 1st sex before they are 18 (legal) but 14.. is little too fast..
wait 'til you get to highschool at least..
2007-03-21 13:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by hoondo87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14???? U are to young to even be thinking about sex. Enjoy kissing, and conversation; sex ruins relationships. Especially teenage relationships. Trust me you will regret it in the future.
Don't let television fool you, sex is not all that great the first time. It's not magical! I don't doubt that your in love, but sex doesn't really make the bound between the two of you stronger.
My question to you is: What is your idea of Sex?? So much could happen to you after the moment. You might get pregnant, and how are going to support a child at 14? You're still a baby. I'm 22 years old, and when i was your age I was more worried about when I was going to get my first kiss. Times are so diffrent now.
I'm not judging you, with the media and the music of today, any 14 year old might be curious about sex. I hope you don't do it because mark my words- YOU WILL REGRET IT! Get an educaution, go travel the world, make a ton of money, go meet other people. Find out who you are, and what your pupose is in life. Sex should be the last thing on your mind.
You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else, Trust me if you loved yourself just a little bit more you could see that you are really not ready for this.
Sex is not magical- it's just sex. If you do it to soon you'll wonder Y the heck you didn't just wait.
2007-03-21 20:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by mikapolove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a little young. If u feel ready and r ready that if something went wrong u would b able to care for a child. Also u must trust ur bf.
2007-03-21 20:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lu_flies_hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ready and you know that you love him talk to him about it talk to anyone about it maybe like a counselor or something and then think of the consequences it could change your mind. Good Luck with your decision. Just remember dont let a guy force you into anything. If he is and thats the only reason why you want to have sex with him than ditch him believe it or not there are alot of respectful men out there you just have to look and see. Please dont do anything that you would regret. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 20:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally yes, I'd have to say 14 is a young age for intercourse. You say that you love him, and I'm glad you have that companionship in your life but this is a great leap from innocence to maturity. It is not just the act you have to think about, but the responsibility and consequnces afterwards. I have seen dozens of high school girls who were so excited at having babies at 16, they never realized all the work involved. AIDs and HIV are rampant, don't get caught in the stampede. Wait until you're legally an adult, some things are worth waiting for.
2007-03-21 20:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lasaro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think you are a little young and I would wait till I turn 16 because if you go and have sex now it's not going to be all that great so just wait and the sex will be better, and You guys will have nothing to look forward to sharing with each other and I would be scared for you guys to break up because you two feel that way after you two have sex, but if you are really thinking about it please use protection, please just do if you decide to.
2007-03-21 20:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by shawna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, you feel what you feel and have to follow you insticts. However, I personally think that 14 is way too young to have sex. If you feel like this guy is pressuring you into having sex, then you need to make the right decision and tell him not, if that's how you really feel.
2007-03-21 20:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm in the same situation but people are saying its your decision. But on the other hand you have to be ready for everything that comes with it. Like what if the condom breaks or you get pregnant. You just have to handle the consequences that come with it. That what i have to realize. Also you have to figure out if you are ready to give your body to that special person. That is just the one basically is what I'm trying to say. I hope this helps you make your decision and i can figure out the same thing. GOOD LUCK!.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 20:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends if you think you are mature enough, and if HE is mature enough. This is not a one-sided thing.
The fact that you have to ask if you are ready implies that you are not there yet. I say wait until you both know when you are ready, not when strangers on the web think you are.
2007-03-21 20:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well my good friend is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend already. i dont think she was really ready. i think he pushed her into it. but the point is that i think that even she knows that she shouldnt have done it. there is a good chance that she isnt going to marry him and when she meets the guy she is going to marry, she is going to have to tell him about this guy. i think she will regret it you know? i think she will feel sad that she gave herself to someone that wasnt even going to be with her the rest of her life. and i think you said that people think you already have. i say that you should prove them wrong so that they cant talk about you.
i really hope i helped. and i hope you make the right decision. good luck! =]
2007-03-23 16:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by caitlincullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on girl. im 17 and my bf and I have been dating for 4 years and just started sex. not what you want to hear, but making out is good for now :)
2007-03-21 20:25:05 · answer #11 · answered by Daniel Wright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋