Thing is, shes part Emo and Gothic. For some reason, I took a liking to these types of girls....anyway, my friend (whos gothic) says that shes a real *****. I beleive him too, cause when I tried to talk to her, she just stared at me with those evil looking eyes...which really scared the crap outta me! Any tips?
2007-03-21 13:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by Alvaro G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe this girl is really just hurting inside and is afraid to let any one else because of past relationships that may of failed. You should get to know her and say "Hey" when you past her in the hallway.
Sit with her at lunch. Talk to her. Ask About what interests her. Share your thoughts and feelings. Make her feel welcome. She probably has gone thru terrible tragedies in her past. you don't yet know her. Not Until you.
To get something you have to give something.
Ask around. Talk to her friends.see what they do after school
maybe even ask her to a dance!! and then to dinner.
You can not be afraid to try something new sometimes. It is part of growing up.
2007-03-21 13:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by kaira biasu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the whole emo, goth thing is just a developmental phase to find out who she really is. Underneath all that makeup is just another girl. Just talk to her, don't try to hit on her, make stupid corney jokes and just have fun. No one is that evil, the makeup and clothes are just a guise for her being scared inside, its a protective shield. Spend time with her, just the two of you and make sure not to judge her, The only way that you can see who she really is, is with her, not your Friend. Take a chance man, whats the worst thing that could happen, she doesn't like you, oh ****, there's only 3 billion more women ON the planet
2007-03-21 20:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by aaron s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how much you respect her style (I guess...lie or something if you don't) and how the dead fashion of the '80s should have stuck around for longer since it's so respectable. You could go into other musical influences from that era you like that she might too, politics of that era, but you basically have to know what she's into. If she's goth, you have to say that you like her sense of style, but don't sound sarcastic at all.
2007-03-21 20:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too involved with her if you think she doesn't like you or she's not attracted to you,because if you get inlove with her or something she will brake your heart.
Look for someone else, even if person is almost the same, but attracted to you!
2007-03-21 20:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Naila 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her one day and be like hey i think that you are beautiful and walk away. then just admire her from afar for a while before trying to talk to her again. but be sincere in your compliment. who knows she may even be so pleased with your compliment that she might come up and talk to you first.
who knows!
good luck
2007-03-29 15:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but entering a relationship when you are intimdated by the other person is not the best idea..if she is a ***** why would you wanna be with her anyways? you deserve someone amazing who is gonna make you happy and treat you right, not someone who is gonna intimidate you...
2007-03-21 20:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Natty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, but your not gonna like it.
anyone who has "evil eyes" is obviously trouble. you should steer clear from those girls.
2007-03-21 20:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her in a duel :)
2007-03-29 13:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋