I am totaly in love with my friends boyfriend !!! me and my friends boyfriend are very good friends and know each other since we were kids !!!! he tells me everything !! he are so close that everyone we meet thinks me and him are going out with each other !!! i love him so much but do not know if i should tell him i like him because i do not want to lose him as a friend .. what would u do if you were me ??????
2007-03-21 13:16:17 · 13 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I did. I chose to walk away and not lose a friend. I suggest you do the same thing.
2007-03-21 14:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bookworm4124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you? Why are you getting involved with your friends boyfriend? Are you jealous that your friend is involved with someone and you have no-one?
How would you feel if your friend treated you the same way? Why not leave them alone and go out with your other friends and meet someone for yourself?
Maybe one day you will be sorry if you act so selfishly. You may lose both of them as friends.
2007-03-21 13:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah my boyfriend i been with for 3 years now ,,, my best mates sister who i was quite close too aswell she invited me out for her 21st she invited this really fit guy along and told everyone too stay away he was her's....as they been seeing eachother a couple of times...when i spoke to him though it was love at first sight we were so alike ...ended up leaving the club with him :D 3 years down the line we're still mad about eachother....she never forgave me...we even had problems with her stalking him for a couple of months and making up she was pregnant with his baby when she wasn't,,, very mad!! I'd say go for it if u don't mind losing a friends over it...i just took a chance and it was the right one thank god!! good luck x x x x
2007-03-21 21:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time when I was infatuated with my boyfriends best friend.
I would honour your friend - if he was really interested in you he should be honourable too and finish with your friend first.
However that is still going to cause some problems - are you really a friend to your friend. If you answer yes then you should know the answer to this question.
2007-03-21 13:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you want more. him or the friend? If you want both.. you play the waiting game until they break up. If you want him, go for it! And if you want your friend more... don't touch him ever. Good Luck! Don't worry, the right answer will come to you.
2007-03-21 13:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dancing with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i was you i would go for it. sod your friends feelings. If hes game and your game too, why not. todays world is all about looking after No1..You...
What you want is never going to come to you... You have to take it, so go out there and take him..
2007-03-21 13:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by pop c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. wait 3 weeks after they brake up thin make a move
2007-03-21 13:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't fall into love with her (my gf's best friend; my best friend's gf)...but she was on my mind a lot...i wouldn't say anything. i mean why start up drama between you, him, and your friend? if anything, wait till he's single and you can make your move then.
2007-03-21 13:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that got the t shirt also was told i was a ***** to try crack onto him behind my mates back n he wasnt so friendly after!!!
2007-03-21 13:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was tempted to flirt. I don't think it was love though.
2007-03-21 13:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋