Guys don''t like me, not sure y, how do i get out of this depression. ALL my friends have bfs, and alays leave me out.... one of them are kissing and hugging right in front of me and knows it bothers me...
i'm deppressed. I know i don't need a bf and im still depressed...
2007-03-21 12:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its my friends......they don't seem 2 care about me....I want want a bf to care 4 me..
2007-03-21 13:10:05 · update #1
i know how you feel.. -.-''
but really you should think about what's more important.. a guy or education/work/family
cause a guy isnt really worth getting upset over about.. you know?
you shouldnt think so much about your friends and their boyfriends. eventually, they'll break up and come to you for a shoulder to cry on...
2007-03-29 12:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Vivi L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're friends were doing that in front of you and they know that it makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to start hanging out with other people. You are right though, you don't need a boyfriend!!
Go out with your friends that are single and have a good time, you never know, you might meet some single guys! The key thing that worked for me is to not expect anything to happen between you and a guy, just take it day by day.
2007-03-29 18:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by The only good blu is a dead blu! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your friends. Do you want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one? A boyfriend should be someone special to you, someone that you care about, and that cares about you. Are you that much of a follower, and do everything everybody else does? Be unique, be an individual. Boyfriends will come into your life, make sure they are there for the right reasons.. I think you are stretching things, saying that you are depressed. Give yourself some time, and don't try to force the issue.
2007-03-28 19:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber just because all your friends have boyfriends doesnt mean you have to have one. If all your friends where doing drugs would you do them just to get in with the crowd?? Also remember your not alone and lots of girls feel the same way as you do but you just havent met the right person yet and who knows....you might just have a secret admirer but too scared too aproach you!
2007-03-29 16:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jadey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that you dont love yourself and as soon as you love your self you will be confertable anywhere you go and not feel that you need a guy to make you happy yes he will make you happy for a little while but then down the road you might find that you dont like him as much or he doesnt like you and the farther you get in the relationship or the more time you spend together the harder it will make it to break off
2007-03-29 13:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well clearly you are not mature enough to have one because you can't except the fact that some people don't even get there first kiss till like 26..
2007-03-21 20:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry soon it a b ur time to shine
just take ur time a good things and a man will come ur way and let ur friends know that u just wanna chill with them and leave there mans somewhere else but also let them know how u fell because they might thank ur hattin
2007-03-29 19:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be happy if you think someone else has to make you happy. Love yourself first and everything else will fall into place.
2007-03-29 17:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by snoopyworthless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to ur parents about getting you some therapy
good luck
=)
2007-03-29 18:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a lost cause
2007-03-29 19:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by fckalltheuglybtches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋