Have known my girlfried for 1.5 years and have been dating for five months. Having been in more than a few relationships, I am positive that I have finally found the LOVE OF MY LIFETIME. It is open, honest and healthy. Issue is: she was previously married (for one year, he was unfaithful) and divorced two years ago. She is understandably afraid of love. I am struggling to show her that love is alive and well and am afraid she will ultimately be emotionally unavailable. Things couldn't be better currently, but I am thinking big picture. Any advice on getting her to recongnize what we have?
2007-03-21 12:54:01 · 3 answers · asked by makeurbrainhurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient with her. Give her time. It takes a while to be able to trust again. If things are currently good, let it progress a day at a time. That is all you can live, anyway.
2007-03-21 13:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show her what a great guy you are. never give her a reason not to trust you. it sounds like you have a great relationship already so it shouldn't be hard to keep it that way.
at least one good thing has come from her being heated on..she knows what it feels like so she will never do it to you.
2007-03-21 19:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm give her time and show her how much u appreciate her and all the small things she does and u have together it takes a while 2 get over heartbreak
2007-03-21 20:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by band_geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋