have u ever knew that it was time for your relationship with someone to come to an end - but you were so much in love with them?
what did you do, did you build up courage? did it hurt alot?
2007-03-21 12:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is there more to this question? Do you feel that your relationship has come to a stand still and that you are finding it boring? yet you love each other? Are you interested in someone else, which is why your current relationship is looking rocky? its wrong to base a relationship on miss trust or carrying on for the sake of it. its better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. So move on if you feel that the time has come. I did because I thought I loved him but it was just the habit of being with him and not knowing anything else, but I was fine and happy once I broke out of the relationship and had time to myself.
2007-03-21 13:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it's over, then it is. It's an awkward thing to break up with someone you're still in love with, and yes it is VERY painful (probably for both of you), but it's one of those ugly things that we all have to do sometimes.
If you already sense that it's going to end, then dragging it out will only make the inevitable breakup more painful for you both, and will probably involve there being some hard feelings that there wouldn't be if you did it now. Best to get it over with sooner rather than later. The sooner you bite the bullet, the sooner the whole thing will be over and you can both get on with your lives.
2007-03-21 19:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine loving someone that much, and breaking up with them. But your question is to broad, I don't know what the curcumstances are or why you feel you need to leave them. I guess I'd need to know the reasons, if they were worth it to break up with the person because they were dragging you down with them some how. I guess you'd just have to do it, and grieve the way you do with any relationship you've lost.
2007-03-21 19:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in every relationship that your going to be in your always going to learn something maybe you guys werent ment to be? maybe you had to experiance some stuff in this relationship so you can be ready for your next. yes it hurts to let go but its only temporarily and yes you build up courage cause you will earn from past mistakes but dont be afraid to let go cause if you dont you will never know what else is out there
2007-03-21 19:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had the problem, it's difficult if you still love the person, I've had to pick up the pieces when my daughter has had her heart broken..
If you think the relationship has gone as far as you think it has, then speak to the person involved, find out their feelings, this could make it easier for you to break the relationship, or harder.
But do what is right for you. Good luck.
2007-03-21 20:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think that it has to end if you are so much in love with them. I know in the cause of someone physically abusing another, that they need to end it before they get hurt. (Even if they love them)
2007-03-21 19:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by dratini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with this guy once a long time ago about 8 years now and im still not over it.
if he even contacted me id still jump at the chance, i guess there are somethings in life you just cant get over, he was my one thing everything else ive managed but this broke me really badly
shame i stil love him
so in answer to your question it hurts more than ever
2007-03-21 19:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mate If you were in love with them you will never want to leave them.If you Do come to an end it will hurt in the beggining and you will be depressed..But you will get over it after a while and get on with your life.
2007-03-21 19:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it hurts both partys, Its never easy, and if its not men tto be man, its not ment to be, theres no easy way to do it, be a man suck it up and just let the other party member down easy, your both gonna go threw what i call "relationship withdrawl" it hurts but ya get over it
2007-03-21 19:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by rawr125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I had a great girlfriend who was a foreign exchange student from Poland senior year in High School. She was wicked-awesome and sexy. However of course - she had to return to Poland (Warsaw) for college. We had our fun, said our goodbye's and cried our cries.
Best thing to do is be real. Don't try to bend reality to make it work. Live and let live.
2007-03-21 19:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋