ive had a boyfriend for four years now...weve made it all through high school together and everythin....now he wants to go away to the coast guard...which was not somethin thats been on his mind until recently...what should i do?
2007-03-21 12:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by jacksgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Encourage him to follow his dream, and tell him he has your support. He'll probably love you even more. You might even hint at getting married. Four years is plenty of time for you two to make a solid commitment.
2007-03-21 12:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be supportive of him. Talk to him about. See why he wants to go all of a sudden. But remember to be supportive. After all you guys have been together for 4 years right so its not like he's going to forget about you. Trust me it'll be good to just have some down time for a little bit and before you know it he'll be back home. Good Luck.
2007-03-21 12:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that the coast guard is his door to leave you. Don't give it a second thought, let him go and wish him the best.
2007-03-21 12:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to talk to him and let him know how this makes you feel and see if that changes things..If not you must let him follow his dream and his heart.
2007-03-21 12:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't not let him go, then he will just be miserable...you have to let him go and if it is meant to be then everything will work out.
2007-03-21 12:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
support him
go wit the flow!
its what he wants to do
so let him
2007-03-21 12:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by i tell it how it is! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If he wants to go then don't try to stop him.
2007-03-21 12:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now!
2007-03-21 12:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him it will be hard but you will move on
2007-03-21 12:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by www.girl2mum.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can, go with him. or let him go.
2007-03-21 12:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋