my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a month and we havent kissed..at all
i know he wants to kiss me and he knows i want to kiss him but we are both very shy..
there have been moments where we almost kissed but nothing..
I've also never been kissed so im kinda nervous
so my question is what is a good way to let him know or what is a good way to kiss him?
let me kow please
thanks
2007-03-21 12:44:32 · 22 answers · asked by katie<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not ready to kiss then don't but if you are ready experiment it together. Everyone kisses differently, just do it one day. Your not going to be awsome at first but you'll get better over the years. Be the brave one and when one of those moments happen when you almost kiss just kiss him. You don't have to make out just kiss him lightly on the lips. Its easy I promise! Good luck!
2007-03-21 12:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, well the first kiss is always a little scary but after that first kiss you'll laugh at urself for being so nervous
first, you can flat out tell him you want to kiss
second, when you are saying goodnight/ goodbye go in for a hug and just give him a soft kiss on the cheek and build up to the lips when you are both over being shy
third, you could just surprise him one day and go in for the kiss
fourth, if you're sitting next to eachother one time, hold hands, put your head on his shoulder, lean in, get close to his lips, chances are he'll go for the kiss and if he doesn't go for it
if you try any of these, he's gonna be so excited you made the first move that chances are he's gonna make the first move next time and you'll have lots of kissing in the future!
2007-03-21 19:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something bad enough, you will go for it. No boy will reject a kiss from a pretty girl. Just don't let it go further until you are much older. Start with a peck or hey, even a peck on the cheek should give him the picture.
2007-03-21 19:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tell It Like It Is! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's a bit scary when your about to have your first kiss with your first boyfriend,but hey!You try new things so go ahead tell him when your ready and when he is ready.I'd say by a lake at night under the moon and stars is a romantic spot to kiss,or at the school dance!
2007-03-21 19:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think you should have one of your mutual friends hint about the kissing thing to him. Maybe they could draw him a picture in paint? Or tell him by his locker?
Or maybe when you hug him, pull back a little bit and look into his eyes. That seems to work for me.
Good luck!!!!
2007-03-25 19:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Laura<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have any experience on kiss because i have not been fall in love. however, i believe that both of you need to know more about each. i believe you both feel shy is not a problem, because i have the same feeling as you .
2007-03-21 19:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by wangguangtian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him!! have you watched 10 things I hate about you?? there's a part where Bianca just reaches over and kisses Brandon because he is afraid to kiss her. Watch the movie and then go for it.
2007-03-21 19:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by ddp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to overcome your shyness and just get close to him and kiss him whats the worst that could happpen? If he wants to kiss you to then your doing him a favor by taking the lead.Just be brave and do it trust me it will be fun! :)
2007-03-21 19:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lean in and don't back out of it.
my girlfriend and i took about 2 months before kissing only because she had some trust issues with guys dating back to her ex-boyfriend.
2007-03-21 19:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok theres not much you can do if a guy is shy except to make him feel comfortable and calm. Also be close to eachother hug him and make eye contact.
2007-03-21 19:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋