I know this secert about my sister and I really shouldn't now this, and it is so big, I have to tell somebody, but if I tell my sister that I know she will like, kill me (not really "kill") but you know what I mean. What should I do.....?
Love,
Ms. Cherry Filling
:)
Please Help Me!!!
2007-03-21 12:42:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The secret about a boy she likes and well hes kind of say a bad bully and her just ask her out and parents shouldn't now about b/c she is not allow to even date even though she is 16
2007-03-21 12:48:15 · update #1
Your question is some-what vague. What I want you to consider is the secret going to cause emotional pain for your sister? Apparently it is a secret because of your sister's decisions and do to the circumstances involve it may be something she couldn't control or prevent it from happening. If she did will this secret to happen, she have her own reason.
As her sister you must examine the situation, and determine will she get hurt. If so, you must confine with her! If you don't fully understand her secret, it is another reason to confine your knowledge of your awareness with her.
God Bless
2007-03-21 12:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be sure you think through the whole situation and how other's reaction to this secret will be. Ask yourself if it will hurt people...and if telling someone will be worth it in the end.
Second, If this is about health or legal issues, be mindful of the consequences telling will bring upon others as well as yourself. Is this REALLY worth telling? Can you tell us instead? Can you explain this issue more clearly and see what advice you get? That is my advice. Good luck!
2007-03-21 19:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by SuperCityRob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh secrets. If someone entrusts you with a secret, generally, you should take it to the grave. In your sister's situation, however, she has broken the cardinal rule of dirty little secrets: She went public, in a place where she could be seen by anyone; friends, exes, parents, even her sister! In this case, if you feel he secret must slip, leak it in a way that can't come back to you.
2007-03-21 20:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by eine kleine nukedmusik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not your secret to tell. I know it is hard not to blab, but think of the damage you will do to your relationship with your sister.
2007-03-21 19:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good sister and keep the secret. You wouldn't want her to tell your secret would you?
She will llove you for it in the future.
2007-03-21 19:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write it all out on a piece of paper and burn it. so no one will find it, and there is no chance of a person you tell not keeping it secret.
2007-03-21 19:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by jesusfreak_200513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds really corney but when i had a big secret i would tell it to anything that wouldnt repeat it....animals, little kids (pref. who can't talk) and when no one was around to hear it i would scream it lol ^_^
2007-03-21 19:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by <3Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe tell us the secret to get it out of your system.
2007-03-21 19:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends what de secret is, does keeping it long affect anybody, if it does, u shud let someone know, like a family member, but before u do so, tell your sis dat u cant keep it long, its stressing you, and you hav to let someone know...
2007-03-21 20:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could tell us unless ur sister knows about this account
2007-03-21 19:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋