He annoys the hell out of me and he is always pointing out my flaws; he always has to tell me something negative like my hair... like today, I wasn't in the best of moods today so I went to school in my baggy sweater/hoodie/thingie. He then tells me at lunch that my shirt makes me look "fat", etc. That is only an example of him "complimenting" me.
2007-03-21 12:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to be nice about dumping a jerk? Lose him as fast as you can!
2007-03-21 12:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right about the sweater hoodie. It will make Carmen Electra look fat. If you want to complete the look, simply spread some chocolate ice cream on your sweater and scruff up your hair a bit.
As for the guy, just dump him if he annoys you. What are you going to marry him? Answer is probably no right? Every minute you waste with this bozo you are ruining your chances to snag an awesome guy.
2007-03-21 12:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I don't believe there is a sure-fire way to break up with someone without hurting some feelings. That being said, I think the bigger issue is that you feel content with yourself for the choice you make to preserve your sense of self. Sounds like he's not being much of a friend to you...pointing out your flaws? He's the last person who should be doing that if he is your boyFRIEND. Now, I'm not preaching to you. I think you are right on the money with this decision you have made to break up with him.
I think you should be confident in that decision and say to him very frankly, without mincing words, "I am ending this relationship because it's not good for me. I need someone who is supportive and uplifting, especially when I am feeling low. I'm sorry if this hurts you, but the things you have said ( and done?) hurt me too much and I am ready to move on."
Okay, so you don't have to say it exactly like that. But my point is, maintain you dignity and confidence. Brava, for knowing he's bringing you down. Good luck!!!
2007-03-21 12:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Karibuboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, good thing you decided to leave this looser! Now, if you want to break up with him "nicely" you need to tell him that you two have grown apart and as far as you are concerned, you just don't see him and you working out. You could aslo mention that you two can stay friends (since you do go to school together) but you are much too busy for a bf!
2007-03-21 12:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people say to use the old, "its not you its me" speech. I highly suggest the "its not me your an idiot" speech. From personal experience make sure to burn that bridge after you break up. If you don't, people always get back together when they feel a cold bed and remember the good old times...
2007-03-21 12:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by J M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start pointing out his flaws like he does to you and then u guys can talk about it or if you have already tried that, tell him that your grades are slipping and that you need some time to yourself to get your grades back up.
2007-03-21 12:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Homie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With someone like that I wouldn't even bother trying to do it nicely. Sounds like your guy has personal issues about how he feels about himself and not you. You are better than that, tell him that you deserve better and your sorry if how great you really are shows him how lame and un-confident he truly is.
2007-03-21 13:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Angelface_the_1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being an a**hole to you, don't be nice about it. Let him know that it's over, and be rude about it. Use all the stupid stuff he has said to you to show him waht an a** he was been.
2007-03-21 12:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't like it when he criticizes you like that. It's disrespectful. Then make him hit the road. Any guy that "compliments" you like that shouldn't be dating.
2007-03-21 12:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the newest technoligy and send him an email better yet an email card. says Well can't say it wasn't fun can't say it was. But its over find another girlfriend. thanks. Or something really sarcastic like that.
2007-03-21 12:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋