Ladies: What are some tell-tale signals that my girlfriend is going to break up with me?

Question

This is all fairly recent. My girl and I have been going out for almost 2 years now, and this past week and a half or so she really hasn't been herself. We are long distance, but only an hour apart and we see each other one or two times a week. She's answers the phone with "what's up" when she usually says "Hey *insert petname here*

I've just been getting this weird vibe lately.

She goes out every once in a while, but she's been going out alot more frequently with her friends and seems less interested when she talks to me on the phone.

she's also been spending the nite at her best friend's house alot, which she NEVER does and when she's there she doesn't answer her calls..there was 4 nights in a row her phone was "dead" and she doesn't call until she has left her friend's place. Is this a good sign she's seeing someone else on the side?

Answer 1

if she seems less interested, or has excuses not to talk to you or see you, if when she is with you or talking, seems preoccupied....ask her.

Answer 2

She doesnt call you anymore, ignores you. Everytime you make plans with her she cancels or finds a way not to go. She turns her friends against you somehow with lies just to have a reason to fight with you. She is cheating on you with another guy or girl. Basically if your getting that vibe you might want to talk to her you guys might just be growing apart which happens and if that the case move on. She should be honest with you about her feelings and vice versa

Answer 3

Sorry love - I think it's more than a weird vibe - if she has changed her tone of voice and her salutation when she answers the phone then I think there's a pretty good chance something (or somebody) is distracting her. Confront her as soon as you see her - don't let the unknown or the misery drag on.

Answer 4

If you are getting "vibes" then you are probably right. Did you every watch "Cheaters" on TV, you will get some good signs on that show.

How about a surprise visit to her place one day!

Answer 5

Maybe she's under a lot of stress right now. It may not have anything to do with you. WHy not ask her if anything's wrong, that she doesn't seem like herself to you. From what you say, it doesn't sound like she's wanting to break up. I don't know. A lot of times break ups start with "We need to talk."

Answer 6

sometimes i do this to guys, believe me girls go through crazy mood swings. I did this to my boy friend once just because i was second guessing him, but everything always ends up working out. Don't try and force conversation on her, and don't ask her whats wrong, just give it some time and see what happens.

Answer 7

She will start picking fights with you, highlighting your differences. She might start calling less and she may seem less interested in the conversation and she may be going out with friends more.

Answer 8

Long distance is never easy. Sounds like you might be breaking up soon. But you have the whole world ahead of you.

Answer 9

Talk to her about getting a weird vibe, what going with her...plain and simple

Answer 10

definitely theres something up, either period, hormones, personal stress..did u do something?,..or someone..for every action theres a reason...ask her nicely if anything is bothering her...or try n meet up, talk about things which can give u clue to her such mood...

Answer 11

yeah if she's changing that's not a good sign. also if she gives excuses to not talk or hangout with you that's another bad sign.