Ive worked with this guy for 5 yrs and he flirts with me all the time. He always says comments about my breasts saying oh they are small, but then says he likes them small. He has looked down my shirt and bet me a "free feel" on something once and he lost, it took a while but he finally said go ahead and grabbed my hand to touch him down there. We go back and forth about each other being chicken and one day he said follow me after work and I did, we ended up in in the middle of nowhere and I got out of my car and went to his door and he opened it and grabbed my hand and put it down there agai. Then he put his hand out to touch me down there, it was brief and very cold and snowing, I told him I had feelings for him and he said well, we are both involved with something else right now, and that was it. Ive seen him sence and he still makes comments about me being chicken and brushes up against me on purpose. How do i tell if he really wants me?? Please help, I am going nuts.
2007-03-21 12:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by janacal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't even respectable "playing around". This guy isn't even serious about seeing you as a person. He's treating you like a toy.
C'mon. Pull together whatever is left of your self respect and don't ever let him use you for what porn sites are made for.
This guy is nothing and he's trying to make you nothing too.
Let it go and find something or someone that acknowledges you as a person with value and worth.
2007-03-21 12:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be letting him do this 1. because he is disrespecting you by making you grab his d*** 2. because you have a bf and he has a gf! If you want to get with him then do it when your not with somebody being cheated on is the worst feeling ever and i know you would be hurt if it happened to you so dont do it to your bf and next time he does this just tell the a**hole to stop and if yall arent gonna be together then tell him not to flirt with you
2007-03-21 19:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI THERE PLAIN AND SIMPLY HE WANTS A BOOTHY CALL WHEN YOUR TOLD HIM THAT YOU FEELINGS FOR HIM AND HE SAID WELL WE BOTH INVOLVED he did not feel the same as you did or he would of said it. do not get all up on him who knows what he does he has someone already and what's to fool around with you get another fish a clean one not one that could give you hpv or any other virus. tell him to back off and if you really feel for him then ask your self this question are you willing to leave your man and him his woman for you both to be together. be well be safe
2007-03-21 19:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking the wrong question - it shouldn't be "does he really want you" What you need to be asking is how do you report sexual harassment at your workplace because this is a classic! Go to your supervisor or Human Resources department immedidately and report him - he is way out of line.
2007-03-21 19:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? I wouldn't be thinking about whether he really wants you or not, I would be reporting him to your supervisor and filing sexual harrassment charges against him.
Your body shouldn't be a pawn to play with and you should be taking better care of yourself and not be playing these type of flirty games as they are very dangerous.
2007-03-21 19:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree, he is just playing you, he doesn't want anything more than sex. Turn him in for sexual harrassment! And for God's sake don't ever follow him from work again! You really don't know what you're getting into, girl.
2007-03-21 19:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by skunkytruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DOES NOT WANT YOU. All he wants to do is get in between your legs and never talk to you again and make you feel like a slut. By the way you are acting like one if you are allowing him to act like that around you. Quit that job and move on!!
2007-03-21 19:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jazmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie he wants you, TRUST ME! and i know you are going nuts and he is too but you both have to settle this somehow. So, the best thing for you guys right now is to stop being afraid and have sex
2007-03-21 19:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does obviously but you said something about you two being involved in something else? I am guessing that means another relationship. That is your business if you want to violate that, which you shouldn't. ;)
2007-03-21 19:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After had groped you then you followed him way off from town? I think you are playing with fire. Look out, you may get burned.
2007-03-21 19:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋