"Its not you, it's me."
2007-03-21 12:19:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when someone said who's the kid who drew this another kid raised his hand even though its mine so i said "its not you! its me!"
2007-03-21 12:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by vloon p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heard it? Once or Twice
Said it? Too many times to count
2007-03-21 19:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I've heard it PLENTY of times. It's become a joke in the show Seinfeld, actually. Seriously, I don't know if you watch that show, but George had said that he invented that phrase, and the phrase pops up in an episode every now and then. You should watch it.
2007-03-21 19:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♥pirate♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've had to say it...and contrary to popular belief I meant it! I was seeing a very nice guy who was just absolutely lovely to me, but I just couldn't give the same amount back because I wasn't over my previous boyfriend so I did the fairest thing possible and broke-up so he could find someone who could give the same amount of love and affection back. So the old cliche that when someone says "Its not you, its me" that they mean the opposite, is NOT true...sometimes when people say that,they really mean it!
2007-03-21 19:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never - it's always been "me". Why? Because when I'm in love I tolerate a lot because I am a very compassionate person - though their faults or misgivings ultimately chip away at the relationship it's still "me" that leaves or asks them to. So to answer your question - never.
2007-03-21 19:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my i hate that saying.. but i've actually used that before, but not in those exact words. people use that so they won't feel As bad and guilty about their decision to end a relationship... i haven't actually heard that yet really, kindof in a way i have.. haha and i've actually heard "it's not me, it's you." basically.. but not in those words of course, but it meant the same. those are lame excuses i say. but whatever.
2007-03-21 19:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I realized I said it a lot, I changed it a little... I started saying it is just me being this or that... or doing.... or thinking... or hoping... really explaining instead of leaving it at it is just me.
2007-03-21 19:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it a lot, but something it can be a legitimate excuse.
2007-03-21 19:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually said it more than I've heard it.
2007-03-21 19:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I've used that line before. Not very mature, I know. I've had it thrown at me too, so I guest I'm even.
2007-03-21 19:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times
2007-03-21 19:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋