Im in grade 10, never had a boyfriend, never kissed a boy, etc....Everyone else seems like they have someone...and a guy told me i need to be more "freaky" because Im boring....
2007-03-21 12:09:39 · 19 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good for you, no need to be freaky
2007-03-21 12:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one thing i learnt from after high school - don't give a tosh what they think of you because you will only know them for five years (or what ever it is in your country) and then that's it. I was a good girl at school, i did have a boyfriend but it wasn't serious it was just for the sake of having a boyfriend so people didn't think i was gay.
After school you will have more freedom to explore your self and interest and then you will find a guy that you like (that's what happened to me anyway)
If it's not bothering you that you don't have a boyfriend don't worry about it. But if you are thinkin that you would like to have a boy in your life then think about the type of guy that you would go for and then go for it - but don't change yourself to date him (only change if you don't like the person in the mirror in the moring)
2007-03-21 19:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by waltzing matilda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla, don't worry about being 'freaky'. don't worry about having a boyfriend or being kissed. it will all happen in due course. in the meantime enjoy yourself, have fun with your girlfriends, and no you are not too much of a good girl. there is no such thing as too much of a good girl and only a foolish hormonally imbalanced young boy would suggest that. so ignore him and continue being a good person!
2007-03-21 19:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and not what someone else says you should be. You may be a little shy. That's o.k. It's a lot better than being obnoxious. Be true to yourself! There are many young ladies like yourself, You are not alone! Enjoy being you. And those boyfriends will come. Be careful who you pick. Only someone who will treat you special.
2007-03-21 19:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would be a good girl. Don't get freaky just stay a good girl as it is the best thing to do.
2007-03-21 19:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Josh D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not, anyways, you do not have to do stuffs you don't feel like doin'. I'm like you, in most of stuffs, and people have learned to respect my way of been, 'cause like that at least you stay out of trouble. YOU ARE NOT BORING! I'm pretty sure you know how to have fun at a party. And besides, as long as the people you know and care about know how you are and they are fine with it, don't change, don't become a STUPID CRAZY STEREOTYPED GIRL like everyone, you're unique and somebody someday will appreciate it. Trust me ;)
2007-03-21 19:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing your going through im in grade 10 and ive also havent done anything yet but just be yourself and eventually youll find someone and no need to try to impress a boy its such a waste of time believe i know
2007-03-21 19:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be so called "freaky" then try to be funny. Ask a question on this to find out some jokes and funny insults and comebacks. Trust me I might find it if you do post it.
2007-03-21 19:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just fine. I didn't have my first kiss until I was a Sophomore. It doesn't mean anything bad, you're just waiting for the right guy to come along. Don't rush into things anyway, enjoy being single.
2007-03-21 19:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by kris08baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pure. Im in 11th grade and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. People respect you for that. It'll all come in time. Don't be fast.
2007-03-21 19:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Chance 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If theres nothing unique or special about you no guy will be interested, but there probably is, even if you are a good girl and some guy will find out someday. You have plenty to look forward to, don't worry about it.
2007-03-21 19:15:50 · answer #11 · answered by nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋