All my friends have boyfriends or haev had one. I've never had one! Is somehing wrong with me? And by the way...I'm 12
2007-03-21 12:06:18 · 19 answers · asked by Elephant Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.
I think that whether or not you have had a boy friend yet, or not, is a function of your upbringing and your social network. For example, I noticed your handle includes the phrase "home school". Don't feel the peer pressure of having to grow up too fast too soon.
I also wonder what the term "boy friend" means to you. Talk to your parents.
The bottom line, my peers didn't start dating and having BFs or GFs until we were in our teens.
2007-03-21 12:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by seaportma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...........YOU ARE ONLY 12!!!!
What I don't understand about the Girls today is that they want to grow up so fast!!! You should be proud that you have not had a boyfriend yet!!!!! :) Your friends are trying way to hard to soon. You should enjoy being a kid....as time goes so fast. You have your whole life to grow up & have boys in your life!! Take things slow!! Enjoy hanging out with your friends because someday they will be gone. Off to collage or somewhere else.
I know it is hard to be 12. Believe it or not I was once 12. Take your time 7 never let anyone pressure you into having a boyfriend!!!
Good Luck,
Tiffany :)
2007-03-21 19:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by bortharris@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 12
2007-03-21 19:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by spike_lewis007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you at all. It'll come, you will have boyfriends when the time is right. Be active in clubs at school and your church. You'll meet lots of boys. For now, study hard, get good grades and enjoy all that comes with being 12. (Not 16)
2007-03-21 19:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, umm i didnt have my first relationship til i was 15 and i didnt have a serious one til i was 16...(the conceited part is that if i didnt have a bf right now, or if i wanted it id get a ton of attention) just wait and when the time is with it will just happen..dont go looking for love, when ur ready it will just find you and when it comes unexpectedly you will be ready
and who cares if everyone else has a bf...no offense but ur 12 the odds of those ppl being with their bf/gf in a month or two (or especially in a year) is extremely slim...don't worry about it, it'll happen when it happens!! i promise
2007-03-21 19:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you sweetie - you are 12!
how old are your friends that they have or have had a boyfriend? sounds a bit young to me. don't be in a rush to grow up. sooner or later you will have a boyfriend, it will happen without your trying to rush it.
in the meantime just have fun being a kid!
2007-03-21 19:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you. you are only 12 and you have the rest of your life ahead of you to find a boyfriend. besides you should be concentrating on school not boys :)
2007-03-21 19:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by pdg_3_20_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12? No. With your friends, maybe. Way too young.
2007-03-21 19:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by emt42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. You're perfectly normal. I didn't have my first official boyfriend till I was 16.
2007-03-21 19:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong with everyone so must likelly yes... You are not perfect therefore there must be something wrong with you... Oh but not because of the boyfriend issue I think thats pretty normal..
2007-03-21 19:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by orgoca 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋