He gets mad when I express myself to him...What should I do?...Also I met another guy recently and he is really cool, we are very compatible, he knows about my boyfriend, and thinks I should leave him in order to make myself happy, he wants to start something with me, he says I'm his soul mate and he would treat me like a queen. I know that I need respect, but I love my boyfriend so much...I don't know what to do...
2007-03-21 12:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by michelle w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make up your mind about who you like.love most. its not fair to your boyfriend or this other guy.
tell your bf what is bothering you, and if he doesn't change, leave him.
2007-03-21 12:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah well make your own choice but keep in mind that this other guy might just be a c*ck blocker. Sometimes the grass isn't really greener on the other side.
If you love your boyfriend, then try to work it out. Tell you that you don't like how he treats you when you try to communicate with him, and that if he is not willing to listen then you can't stay in the relationship. It is as simple as that. Communication is the key. Let him know how you feel and if isn't willing to listen to you then move on. Let him know that it is serious and that he is making you unsure of your relationship, but for heavens sakes don't mention this other guy.
IMHO any guy or girl for that matter who attempts to move in on a relationship is a piece of SH_T!!! and are not too trustworthy. I have done this myself when I was in college, but I grew up and learned from my actions and would never consider it again. It doesn't matter what they say or how they say they will treat you, people say all kinds of sh_t all the time. It is just dishonest.
2007-03-21 13:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby the Brain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in this case you must see, which you value the most, the time with your boyfriend and the love you have for him, or getting into a new adventure, that can look awesome, but maybe it won`t be that cool later, cause at least your boyfriend is someone you know fine, but this new guy I don`t think you know perfectly, so the answer is in you, what you want the most, a change is never wrong anyway, the best of luck!! ;D
2007-03-21 12:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh...... The bad boy nice guy scenario.
I'll tell you what, if you want the bad boy - you're going to have to change, in order to change him. You are gonna have to stop the sensitive "pillow" talk and start acting naughty and playful. If you are doing "it" ...be adventurous, cuss and scream. If he pisses you off, tell him to get bent and generally be a little crazy b*tch - if you do it right, he will start to simmer down, pounce you and reveal new feelings for you.
However, if you can't adapt to him, you might as well call it off. If he's hot and/or popular/talkative then he's likely to have already cheated on you, you'll have more luck with the nice guy. Beware, the nice guy might smother you with affection, become way attached and be boring and less adventurous. If you're ready to end your life now and pop out a bunch of squirrels - then go ahead.
The best solution is to choose a guy with a nice balance of qualities. Who is not too nice to annoy you. Yet who is adventurous and can take command. One who will not smother you with love, but will give it to you when it means the most.
Good luck!
2007-03-21 12:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that you need comunication. You want to be with him, but if he cant do that you are going to leave.but about this other guy he has no right to tell you to leave your boyfriend. The only reason that he would have that right to is if your boyfriend hit you. You should try to work it out with your boyfriend, because you love him.
2007-03-21 12:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so are you going to stay with the guy that DOESNT respect your feelings or are you going ot let go of the pain and confusion he is causing you to be treated like a queen elsewhere. would you rather eat raw rye bread instead of cake? i wouldnt choose the rye bread, i like being happy.
2007-03-21 12:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gets mad wen you say how you fell.......dump him!!!!!!!!!
and this other guy seems to like ou. he cares about ouy and ur not even going out. but i did that and the guy didnt like me after all so. be ready 4 ne ting!!!!!!
good luck!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 12:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with him. that guy will probably not be able to live up to his words and probably just wants you. be more dominant in your discussions a little.
2007-03-21 12:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by morobell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think about which guy i want to spent the rest of my life with
2007-03-21 12:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyf sounds soft to me ditch him n go with other guy
2007-03-21 12:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋