Heres the question..
From all the cheaters...the shallow..the dating for "fun" people..
the players..the ego divas...the divorce rate...the growing singles in this country...
How would you tell another person that Love is worth it?
Keep in mind this person has heard it all before...
"Ah you will find someone"
"Have faith he or she will come to you"
"When your ready she or he will come to you"
In fact hearing all these promising remarks is what he or she drove her or him to have no respect for love at all...
Now imagine this person is sitting in front of you girl or guy..
and this person has been looking and not looking for a good amount of time...try 15 years ...he or she askes you why should I even continue? You are her or his Last hope before he or she gives up for the rest of her or his life.
How can you convine a person of something that's good if he or she has never know the good of it?
Good luck...
2007-03-21 12:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd tell them that love is the only emotion that is strong enough for them to live their lives to the fullest, and that the search for your true love really isnt a search at all. when people say things like "love works in mysterious ways" they say it for a reason. there are no potions or spells, no predictions or reading of the stars that can help you find that one person that completes you, it just happens. But when it happens you'll know, and you'll know that it was worth the wait. If this person was to ask me to convince them I would refuse to because of what i have just stated and because the harder you look for something, the more elusive it is. Do i believe in love? yes. Am i with someone right now that completes me in more ways than anyone ever has? yes. Do i hope that this person, whoever they are, gets the chance to experience such a life changing mind blowing experience as being with their one true companion? of course i do. But it's not up to me whether it happens, they just have to open themselves up to the world, hang on for the ride, and in time they will find that person completly by accident and that person will find them.
2007-03-21 13:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by benn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have to decide to have their own faith. Other people telling them what to believe doesn't work. Either the person will have faith in life and love, or choose not to. No one should be considered anyone's "last hope". If the person has such a negative view of love or "no respect for love at all" then I'd find someone with a more willing heart. I personally don't need to convince someone to believe in love-- I want someone open and free and willing.
2007-03-21 12:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The common infatuation and the primary emotions of affection appear to continuously make humans pleased if they're back. But, in the end LOVE can not make you pleased. Happiness comes from inside. No dating can POSSIBLY be ultimate always. The finest happiness that may come from love is making the partnership paintings! Feeling that you've a accomplice for existence and anybody who's there for you it doesn't matter what could make you suppose VERY pleased. Unfortunately...plenty of humans have had that feeling and it has led to divorce. YOU have got to be pleased inside your self to even MAKE love paintings. *sigh* It's all so elaborate. But I might NEVER say that love is a precise motive of grief.
2016-09-05 11:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest they are trying too hard --- i met my lady by total accident and she is nothing like the profile i thought i was looking for --- and im old as well --- she is much younger than me and we love each other very much
2007-03-21 12:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋