I've only been with average white guys and I heard my first black bf is hung like a horse what should I do? I have never had or seen anything larger than 6 inches. I talked to a few people who know my boyfriend and they all say he is atleast 10 or even 11 inches!!! Ouch. How do I prepare for something like that?
2007-03-21 12:02:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE has to prepare you, by using plenty of patience & a lot of foreplay.
And be sure to tell him if something is not comfortable, so you can stop before it hurts. You can try again in a few minutes.
RELAX!! Tension will make it more difficult.
2007-03-21 12:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, an Aries doesn't necessarily enjoy being pursued. They are usually the one doing the chasing. They enjoy autonomy (me time) but crave attention as well. In this particular circumstance, I would say that you'd do better laying off a bit - feign indifference with an Aries. The one an Aries is usually attracted to, is the one that wants nothing to do with them. This arouses the Arian chase and conquer. An Arien loves nothing more than a good challenge. Something that'll give them a real run for their money. Once an Aries realizes they've got you, their interest level may drop. You see, there's no more challenge there. Don't worry about keeping it going yet. Sometimes with an Aries, they'll be attracted but won't let you know it right away. They tend to exhibit some passive/aggressive behavior. One day, they'll flirt away with you, and the next, they'll pretend not to know you. That's just the way it is. At times, it can take an Aries a significant amount of time to move on this. You see, they're sizing you up. Failure is not a word in the Arian dictionary. So they'll size you up because if they think your not the one, or this won't work, they won't get involved. It could fail. An Arian won't have that. Let your Arian think you've lost it for them. They'll wonder why. This will bother them, and initiate the challenge to them. It's all about the challenge with this one. In addition, Arian women tend to rise above the frey. As an example, the Arian sign is the only cardinal (starters, initiators) fire (adventure) sign in the zodiac. Therefore, an Arian woman may start some conflict in her circle of friends, pitting two women against one another by initiating the conflict, and then "rising above the frey" and pulling herself out of what she's started. Arians are initiators, but fall short on follow-through. It may be that she's initiating this dynamic with you, then rising above it after she's done so. That's what I mean by some passive/aggressive behavior from them. Remember with the Arian: It's all about the challenge. Make yourself a challenge and you'll get her to notice you. As a side note, an Arian does well with a Gemini but does better with other fire signs, like Leo or Saggitarius. Keep your Arian guessing. Arouse her challenge/conquer traits.
2016-03-28 22:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm ok? Is your Bf a ****? Because you said that you asked around and a FEW people told you that his penis was big. Why would you ask other females that he has had sex with how big his penis was? Are you in H.S or something? He might not be that big anyway, you just have to test the waters.
Please ignore stereotypes like that. I've dated a couple of black guys who weren't big at all.
2007-03-21 12:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by aquaqwetty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women can't handle it no matter how hard they try. I have numerous black friends they date white women for awhile then toss them aside to them its a thrill theres no love in it for them and you will end up finding this out the hard way. Black men run a different program with white women then black women they like to do white women for bragging rights that's what players do. Better rethink what your doing......
Can you say OJ Simpson
2007-03-21 12:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you prepare for that by getting on top, so you can control whats going in how far. but maybe they are exaggerating, and hes not that long. plus its the width that i'll be worried about. i could take a 10 inch pencil dic any day, but not a coco cola bottle.
2007-03-21 12:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with black guys and huge guys (the biggest actually wasn't black) but I would say prepare with a little bottle of astroglide or KY and take it easy.
2007-03-21 12:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by rainforestangel1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, at least you have a significantly higher chance of having an orgasm. But yeah tell him to go easy on you- black guys can really go from what ive heard......
2007-03-22 09:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more concerned with how many people he's been with since so many people know his size? I'd also be sure that the condom your making him wear fits nicely.
2007-03-21 12:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by kelly-il 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont know. some people would say you lucky. but rarely is a guy to big for a girl
2007-03-21 12:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by =]smile[= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...yeah. Black men are bigger than white men. Trust me..im a black female and i know. Just tell him to be gentle honey. It'll be fine
2007-03-21 12:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋