My best guy friend (blake) really really likes me and we have gone out like 15 times before and none fo them worked. Recently i broke up with my boyfriend (glenn) and i still really love him and like a month or two after i broke up with glenn, blake said he really liked me and asked me out for the 3rd time this school year..i told him i just want to stay friends and that i still really really like glenn...he got all upset and told me to F glenn in the butt and get over it...and now im sitting here in tears cause i don't know what to do cause i really miss glenn and blake is being like this and i don't know how to get him to realise i don't wanna go out with him again...
how do i get him to realise this?..i don't want to ruin our friendship becuase of this..im just going through a hard time right now and he doesn't seem to get it that im hurting and i don't want to be with anyone except glenn right now..hwo do i get blake to understand this...?
2007-03-21 12:00:49 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
frankly the third answer with the Not dating any guys at my school anymore..don't sound like a bad idea...lol
2007-03-21 12:13:50 · update #1
OK....from a mans standpoint, I would say if he didn't stand by you when you needed him and when you were hurting, then he might not get it. there is always that chance though. But if he doesn't get over himself then he isn't the kind of friend a women needs. A good friend is one who will stand by you no matter what, even if that means that that friend will not have a chance to have a closer relationship.
its not worth hurting more.
John Curtis
2007-03-21 12:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by A marine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend blake is a common school friend....
he has the perception that you like him like that because you 2 have dated in the past. just because hes your friend he thinks he has more of a chance with you compared to every other guy out there. and its not always like that, not everyone is compatable with everyone in the world, somtimes being friends is all that it is, nothing more. if hes a somewhat smart guy he will understand that you two arent right for each other, you just have to take the initiative to talk to him.
like i said blake is just a tyipical guy friend, of course hes gonna think that no other guy is good enough to date you, or the simple fact that hes jelous.....
as for glenn, well if things are ment to be then you will be back with him....
and if its not then get over it and move on.
or maybe you just not need to date guys in your school anymore
2007-03-21 19:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a true friend then he would see that you really like this glenn and be more supportive and help you thru this time. you have to tell blake that if you are truly my friend then you will stand by me and wait but if you can't handle that then you can go.
2007-03-21 19:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋