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it is not like i do it all the time. but i feel kind of guilty...what do you think????? (Ladies only, PLEASE! I already know what men will say!)

2007-03-21 11:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Not this man. Masturbation typical during an intimate relationship can be cause for concern. It depends on the intent of the maturbation. Is it done out of frustration, anger, or pride then you might have a big problem with being strait to your partner about your sexual needs/desires, or even just plain emotional connection. Also along those lines you could be trangressing your frustrations in other arenas of the relationship and this could be your way of saving your animal ego (personal sense of pride) from feeling.... put down.. or jaded as I like to call it. If it is done simply because your flustered and your mate's not around there really isn't no call for concern or guilt. If your feeling guilting about over that, then talk to him about it and you might find a better way to get want you need when you need it. Another thing to worry about thou is that just maybe your not really completely and truly in love with this person (trust being the real issue) or else why would you be hiding any part of yourself from him, enough to feel guilty?

2007-03-22 02:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

Ok im a guy(sorry i cant help it), You shouldnt feel guilty because most likely he is doing it too. theres no reason to hide it but there is really no reason to tell him unless he asks

2007-03-22 13:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by iwll m 2 · 1 0

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