theres this girl that likes my bf and she always flirts with him and one time he was absent she went by my table and shes all "omgg wheres [his name]!!" today i saw him after school, by the bus area and i was talking to him, and she comes up tugs his backpack, and then to me hes like oh i got to go, answer your phone later.cus she kept tugging on his backpack..& she didn't know i was going out with, iv'e never even see her at school but now that she knows i'm going out with him,shes always around me.what should i do? should i be mad at him or her?
2007-03-21 11:55:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes all sweet and nice when she talks to me on myspace
2007-03-21 11:56:08 · update #1
tell her to back off and tell him to stop encouraging her
2007-03-21 11:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chek this out babygirl.... If he ain't man enough to show and tell her u his girl aand just respect her as a friend then i would get in his @(* Because no matter if u have a fine boy frined or not there will still be tramp @&% Chickens aroung tryin to get yo man....Take it from me evry time i get a girl some little shawty come rollin up but i respect each and every one my women of the past to tell other females to bak up...So take it how u feel....
2007-03-21 19:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by vahnenigmatic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that is a tough one. I don't know what to tell you. I would just try and talk to him about it. Maybe there is something going on and maybe there isn't. It all depends on how much you trust each other. But, if you are in High School...you will go through a lot of relationships. Don't get hung up on this one.
2007-03-21 19:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Soopspoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to get mad at anybody...more so, at him. It's not his fault girls are tugging his backpack....he must be cute, huh?
What to do: Stake your claim! Let the entire school population know that he is yours (and you are his!). Anybody who wants to make a move on him (or on you) will be sent to DHall. Kewl enough for you??? LOL Just chill, baby girl...everything's gonna be all right, k?
SMILE!
2007-03-21 19:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only be mad at her for flirting with him if he is not flirting back with her
Girls will be girls and if they like your boyfriend they will do whatever it takes to grab his attention and try to take him from you
I wouldn't talk to her anymore on myspace or anywhere.
2007-03-21 19:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be frank and confront him or her on this. If your b/f doesn't want to talk about it, dump his *** and find someone with better committment. Speaking of which, it seems he has comittment problems already. But just follow my advice and go from there. Best of luck....
2007-03-21 19:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I really think you should ask Jerry Raferty on this one. Only if the owls come out at night though.
2007-03-21 18:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He holds the responsibility to decide who he spends time with and what relationships he is going to develop.
She may be a b**ch and be leading him on, but it's on him whether he takes the bait or not.
Ask him straight-up what is going on and where he stands, depending on what you want to happen with your relationship.
2007-03-21 19:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about it. if he is a good guy he will tell her to calm down and he won't recipricate any hints that he is interested in her. if he uses the excuse that he can't do anything about it and he quietly eggs it on then dump him. you want a guy that will focus all his attention on you even if thousands of girls are trying to get his attention.
2007-03-21 18:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to be mad, be mad at your boyfriend, your boyfriend knows better than to flirt back with other girls while hes out with you. and for that girl, she should know better to not flirt with other guys who are already taken.
2007-03-21 18:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by LD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to her - she's just out for your bf and will use you to get to him. she hasn't done anything wrong, so you can't get mad at her, but don't get into drama with her anyway. and if your bf is mean to you or ignores you get mad at him - not her!
2007-03-21 19:00:23 · answer #11 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋