my boyfriend is so sweet and says he would do anything for me. we have been going out for amost a year now but our reationship isn't really going anywhere. We hug alot and i wish that we could kiss soon but we dont see each other that much and when we arent together i miss him but when we are thogether we hardly talk what do i do
2007-03-21 11:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by Boff Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best course of action here is to approach him about your relationship. Bring up critical questions that mean something to you both. One important question, when you find time, if you are going to be more intimate (i.e. kissing, etc). Does he want to take this further. If not, you might have to re-think the motives of this relationship. Even though you might have feelings, it would be worse if the love turns to boredom and frustration from not being open and honest. If your questions are answered (and his actions show it), then you need to quasi-plan. Be spontaneous but organized about what to do next. I hope this helps.
2007-03-21 12:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by AzuleNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been going out for almost a year and havent kissed yet?? thats weird. Well i think if he;s sweet and you like him you shold try and make your relatonship go somewhere. ask him if he really wants to be with you and if he does tell him you feel like you alls relationship is not going anywhere so that you guys can work together and make it better. It takes teamwork! :)
2007-03-21 11:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, did I read that statement wrong, or are you saying you haven't kissed? Are you ten? Now, I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with holding off on the physical, especially if you are young, but... one year? No kiss? I dunno, girlie. Also, please please please, observe what he does, more than what he says. People can say anything. You say your relationship isn't going anywhere (and it sounds like you are right), but, riddle me this: Are you in any position (age, job, whatever) to move in together, get married, or have children? If the answer is no, then where, exactly, do you want this relationship to 'go'?
2007-03-21 12:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by eine kleine nukedmusik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's not going anywhere, until he makes more time for you and spend it with you, it is then where you two can learn about each other more. Learn about yourselves and how to deal w/ issues, values you might have and likes and dislikes about certain things like music, concerts, movies, bike riding, surfing, etc.
2007-03-21 11:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been going out with him for a year and have never kissed. Hmmm My question to you is how old are the both of you. My advice is follow your heart.
2007-03-21 11:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by nighthawk159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that loser to man up and kiss his women! Boo, if it was me i would birng u suprises like boxes on christmas and light to yo life like the Sunday morning sunshine. Yo too much sweets is not good for you you know
2007-03-21 11:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by vahnenigmatic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so let me get this straight, you have been going out for almost a year...but you havent kissed yet? hun i hate to break it to you but he might not serious about this relationship and its probably time to let him go and move on to someone that will SHOW you that he loves you and do anything for you instead of just saying it.
2007-03-21 11:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to try to talk to him, spend more time with him and just be comfortable around him. Are you both shy??
2007-03-21 11:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Soopspoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure hes your boyfriend if you havent kissed him in a year?
2007-03-21 11:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. thats pretty different. maybe hes scared to make the first move.
2007-03-21 11:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Reesy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋