I have always dated older men and they have always been attracted to me. We are very much in love and he has asked me to marry him. I said Yes! Now, new thoughts I never had before about our age difference are popping up. What if he ages really fast and can't keep up with me. I can easliy pass for 21 and I have a ton of energy. I never date anyone older than 50 and yet in five years he will be at that age. I am not superficial, I am just worried when he is 60 and I still look 30ish.
2007-03-21 11:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by Helpful26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have the same thoughts about my lady and the age gap is greater ---- discuss it with him --- we have and decided that it is nothing to be concerned about as we care deeply for each other
2007-03-21 11:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really that in love with him, or are you just wanting the security that he can give you right now, that a much younger man wouldn't be able to give you. Either way, having to live with him no matter how fast he ages is the price you will have to pay if you go ahead with this marriage.
2007-03-21 18:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm available if you lose him! lol But seriously, it's a smart thing to wonder about the future. Have you thought about kids? Even if you don't want them now, what if you change your mind in the future? You know, if I were you, I'd sure think about dating a younger guy, someone not much older than you. There are some good ones out there, and most of us old guys that are single are single for a reason...lol
2007-03-21 18:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In 5 years you'll be 31. So what? Fifty is not old and he can still get you pregnant. If you love him, marry the guy or let him go now. Act like a 26 year old and not a teenager.
2007-03-21 18:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by silly-asious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you love this guy enough do it, things'll work out and as far as him aging really fast, I doubt it. I'm speaking from experience. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-21 18:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by rhinestone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!
2007-03-21 18:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by pimp_knuckles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋