i mean yah we will end up braking up but i just want to prove to him that im not planning on braking up wtih him anytime soon.
i love him. and i know he loves me to.
any advice.
oh and i going to go ahead and say something else not about this. my guy friend had asked me out and i never gave him an answer and my mom said that she told his mom that i just want to stay friends with him.well he called me today and evedentally my mom told him something else . he kinda sounded a little upset when i told him that i have a boyfriend. but he said it was fine but he said that he is confused espcially since he got all of this stuff dumped on him in one day.
wat do i do about both of these questions?
sorry that its so long i just really need some good advice.
2007-03-21 11:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by elaina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 so i cant date yet.
2007-03-21 11:59:13 · update #1
Talk to your boyfriend and be honest. Respect your relationship by not having other guys get the false impression that you're available.
You should have answered the guy friend in the first place.
2007-03-21 11:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't prove anything, either you do or don't. If he's insecure he has a reason to be. Don't tie yourself to him out of guilt, your hurting both of you. The other guy is obviously on your mind, and that's not a good sign.Why would you try to prove him wrong if your already thinking about it?
It's not wrong to want somebody else, but it is wrong to string a person along. Be with the person you want and see where it leads, to a permanent arrangement or otherwise. You can always tell him that there are no guarantees but your with him now.
2007-03-21 11:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by yellow_rose_of_texas10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if you're going to break up with him eventually, why lie and say that you won't? Just tell him how you feel about being with him. Be truthful.
About your other part, you never really asked a question. What is it that you need advice on? If he's confused, clarify it a bit more for him. Make him understand that you can't date him if you're already with someone else.
2007-03-21 11:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give out any signs that you are going to break up with him...He's just being insecure most likely...Keep on reminding him how much you love him, sooner or later he'll know you really do mean it....
---2nd Question---
Tell him sorry for the mix-up...I didn't mean for none of this to happen...Your a kewl guy but I'm kind of with some one that I really care about...You & I are still kewl right?
Just be real with 'em girl!
Good luck
2007-03-21 11:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: well, he will just have to trust you that you won't break up with him. If he really loves you then he should trust you. For now just tell him how much you love him.
2: Well, if he is a good friend then you might just want to talk to him and tell him how you feel. if he is just a guy, than just ignore him and he will get over it sometime! lol.
2007-03-21 11:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st question: u should deffinatley show him you care by going out on a REALLY romantic date. show that you enjoyed every minute of it, and make plans with him to go on one again!
2nd question: u need to find out what your mom said. if you like your guy friend more than your boyfriend you are in trouble. you need to look around and find out what you should do. dont play innocent. if you are planning to break up with your boyfriend then cut to the chase. there is no need to pretend that something is "there" when you like another guy!!!
2007-03-21 11:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wuld tell ur boyfrend face to face that u wernt planning on breaking up wit him ne time soon, then tell the other guy that u really lik him as a good frend and tell him that u dont no y ur mom made up that big lie but tell him u relli want 2 still b frends
2007-03-21 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~!COLIE MARIE~! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do sumthing special for ur bf to show u truly care about him and want to be with him
As for ur other guy friend tell him that its possible that u two might have a future together but dont want to ruin ur current friendship over a relationship..does that help?
2007-03-21 11:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Teen_Trouble01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can prove it is by not breaking up with him.
not sure what your second question is and if you want to prove to your boyfriend you will not break up with him (at least not anytime soon lol) then the other guy doesn't matter
2007-03-21 11:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot prove to him what you are going to, or not going to do tomorrow. It's a futile effort that could be better spent trying to help him build up his self confidence.
2007-03-21 11:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Tunney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋