Ok, I met this girl this weekend at a bar we danced a couplr timres exchanged numbers and have talked every night last night we went out but she brought one of her guy roomates with her, just trying to understand this girl what do you girls think is going on here. I really like her shes really hot and cool to be around, but not understanding her, girls please help!!!!!
2007-03-21 11:40:32 · 9 answers · asked by Paul D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say she was just nervous possibley and didnt wont to be along with a guy she really dont know yet. I would say ask her out, she must like you a little or she wouldnt even came. right. .. Go for it. Good luck
2007-03-21 11:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be nervous about how much you guys are keeping in contact and just wanted a friend there to either evaluate you or back her up. I have guy friends that offer to do that frequently, he's most likely a brother-figure and very protective of her. Can't tell you for sure whether you're heading down the relationship ladder or heading straight to the top, but either way, just give her a little space, don't let on that you're excited, but maybe talk to her about it and let her know that you were unnerved by it. Easier said than done, I realize, but good luck.
2007-03-21 11:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too worked up about it yet. She probably went to the bar where you met with some friends. Talking on the phone with you every night is not physically dangerous for her. She may have asked her roommate to tag along in the off chance you turned out to be something a bit more dangerous or unpredictable than your encounter and conversations have made you out to be. If this continues, you've got your answer, but in this day and age, it's ridiculous for a woman to be irresponsible when dating. Hang in there...give it time.
2007-03-21 11:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by KWR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant always find someone special at a bar okay? Cuz they will be a little crazy! I encourage you not to look for someone in a bar.
Least you can do is ask her if who this guy is that is her roomate friend......Ask her if she is getting intimate with him and see....
If you really think she is the one for you try to ask her out more if you can! the worst thing you can find out is if she has her roomate as her BF!! =)
2007-03-21 11:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's into you, too. She might have brought her friend for support or protection. It is a little weird. It would be less surprising if her friend were female. Next time ask her if you can go out alone.
2007-03-21 11:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants to go out with you but isn't sure if she's ready to be alone with you... it's tacky, I agree, but it's like getting a friend to phone with an "emergency", just in case the date isn't going well. Give her some time.
2007-03-21 11:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't want to be alone with a strange guy. It's possible. The only way to find out is to ask her.
2007-03-21 11:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aint nothing wrong with having a roommate of the opposite sex. Doesnt mean they have something going on.
2007-03-21 11:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its really normal. she doesn't know u yet. to go out with u along. I think that's the reason. its okay relax. I mean some girls don't trust anybody even know u talk to her in the phone. its really normal to me.
2007-03-21 11:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋