well omg..i was goin out with this guy until we broke up, after we broke up we stoped talking for a while and then we got back to talking.. now all we do is flirt and we get really tuchy[bt not in a bad way]. everybody thinks that were going out bt were not we just flirt a little bit to much.. how do i stop flirting with him so much because if i contintue ima start likin him again and i dont want that to happen.. please help me..?
2007-03-21 11:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by LA_LOKiiESZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him alone, give him and yourself some space.
2007-03-21 11:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first started reading this I could have sworn you were talking about my situation.. I almost thought you were the girl I'm flirting with. Your story and mine are so alike I had to call her and ask her if you were her.
Crazy!
Considering I'm actually just like this guy in a situation just like this, I feel I should share my opinion.
Tell him directly that you enjoy flirting but you just can't date him again. Let him know that you don't want things to get serious again, because you two are just not compatible. Then ask him to stop flirting with you. Tell him that if he can't stop flirting you will have to stop talking to him.
You of course have to stop flirting also.
2007-03-29 17:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place, can you both move past that? maybe you are still compatible, "don't throw away the baby with the bath water", just because you had a spat is no reason to break up, unless is was something serious, if you can move forward that means you are maturing. Good Luck
2007-03-21 18:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself away from him and focus on something else, If you are afraid of liking him again and you don't want that than you shouldn't flirt with him and give him the impressions that you do like him.
2007-03-29 16:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about what everybody else think , as long as you know and he know y'all ain't no couple you ain't got nothing to worry about.Just cause you stop flirting with him does mean he gonna stop doing that with you.You must still like him if you keep doing it seems like to me that you have a perosnal issue to handle on you own.
2007-03-29 18:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know you dont want to flirt with him and you dont want to like him and you dont want any of that to happen again, what are you doing?! stay away from him and dont talk to him. you already went down that road and since you dont want to again, just get out of the situation completely.
2007-03-21 18:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't pick up the phone when he calls you... Call him back after 3 days and control the way you talk to him...
2007-03-29 13:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest to try hanging out with more of your girlfriends. i think thats the best way to stop. cuz if ur spending more time with ur girlfriends than it is harder to be with him... hense flirting less. good luck.
2007-03-29 17:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tempest6768 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture him as a family member.
2007-03-21 18:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by nighthawk159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should proabaly stop talking to him. or maybe give him another chance. Things could have change. wish u good luck
2007-03-21 18:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he flirts ignore him or talk with him and tell him that you guys cant play grab *a#$* anymore!
2007-03-29 15:29:04 · answer #11 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋