we have been going out for 8 months. We are supposed to visit his parents this weekend, I would be meeting them for the first time. Should I go? Or breakup with him after the weekend? I don't know what to do.
2007-03-21 11:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by helpme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure why not. Better before than going to his parents and pretending everything is going great. That would just be a lie. Do you lie often?
The fact that you have been going out for 8 months is meaningless, it is too short of a time for it to mean much of anything.
Break up tonight and get it over with. That way he can move on to another breeze.
2007-03-21 11:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now..before meeting the parents.
2007-03-21 11:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you want to end this 8 month relationship, it would be weird if you broke up before you met his parents and before his birthday. I think after (if you think the relationship SHOULD end) think it over!!
good luck
2007-03-21 11:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by - - MiSS SEYDi.. &♥; ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why not, what a great birthday present. he'll never forget what you gave him, a broken heart. break up before you meet the parents.
2007-03-21 11:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hows this. if he's done something really bad.. give him the worst present ever; break up with him on his birthday.. other wise it's your decision. do what ever you want.
2007-03-21 11:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by ĎλЯĸ λňפέŁ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to break up with him...Do it now..
The sooner the better...
2007-03-21 11:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not gonna go you should not wait till the last minute to tell him.
2007-03-21 11:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋