What is a good Christian Relationship?
i'm 16 years old.. and i have a boyfriend and.. lets just say the only thing we have in common is Christ.
Of course... i'm only human and really.. really immature. I do admit i have sexual desires and i do make out with him. I know that he feels the same way..
I know right now.. i really want to, i know it's wrong, not only reglion wise, but i'm too young.
is making out bad?
what would jesus want?
2007-03-21 11:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God invented sex. Think about it! Would God invent something that is bad?
People subvert the true loving nature of God with stuffy principles, and quirky ideas because they can't deal with their own sexual desires.
God wants us to love one another, and friendship between a man and woman is intended to include a healthy sexual component.
I say, go for it! Yeah God!!!!
2007-03-22 22:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings and thoughts that you have about wanting to do something like that are just as much of a sin as going through with it. There is nothing wrong with showing affection to your significant other but I would make sure that you two are strong in your faith and walk with Christ to be able to turn away from the tempations that are trying to present themselves. I would suggest that you spend less time making out and see if you two can go to church together. You don't want the consequences that come with taking the step to have those sexual desires. They are more trouble than they are worth. I would pray that God bring you some pure thoughts and look to strengthen your faith to resist the tempation. You are too young to go through with your sexual desires. Take it slow and spend time with God together. You have the rest of your lives to make those decisions and to spend time making out. I would seek God together and he will show you the right way for you two to go. I have learned that men come and go and it is best to wait for the right one to make those kinds of decisions with.
2007-03-21 18:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to 'make out' some. But if things start getting too hot and heavy (for either of you), take a break, suggest going for a soda, or just find some other people to mingle with. You should both talk about this and both take responsibility not to let things get out of hand. Your life will be so much happier if you do.
2007-03-21 18:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Prof Fruitcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer in your heart.
I am not a Christian, but I think you need to slow down and take your time. Don't rush things. It is always best when you have a life partner that you have much more in common with. Besides, a boy will tell you anything if he thinks he can get to you! Take care my young friend, enjoy your youth. Gowing up isn't all that hot!
2007-03-21 18:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Enchanted Gypsy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God would require that you save yourself for marriage. It is especially important because you are a Christian.
16 is too young emotionally to have a serious sexual relationship.
I do not see why you and this guy cannot just be good friends.
Go to the movies, ride bikes, rollerblade etc. Have fun and enjoy being 16.
2007-03-21 18:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by zoril 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Along with all other kinds of sexual immorality, sex before marriage / premarital sex is repeatedly condemned in Scripture (Acts 15:20; Romans 1:29; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 7:2; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality, because they all involve having sex with someone you are not married to. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations that God approves of (Hebrews 13:4).
Sex before marriage has become so common for many reasons. Far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing the “re-creation” aspect. Yes, sex is pleasurable. God designed it that way. He wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity (within the confines of marriage). However, the primary purpose of sex is not pleasure, but rather reproduction. God does not outlaw sex before marriage to rob us of pleasure, but to protect us from unwanted pregnancies and children born to parents who do not want them or are not prepared for them. Imagine how much better our world would be if God’s pattern for sex was followed: fewer sexually transmitted diseases, fewer un-wed mothers, fewer unwanted pregnancies, fewer abortions, etc. Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence saves lives, protects babies, gives sexual relations the proper value, and most importantly honors God.
2007-03-21 21:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Freedom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, God wants you to wait until you are married for many obvious reasons. Your flesh doesn't. Make the decision. Do you want to follow god or not? It's simple. Keep yourselves away from temptation, such as being alone in a room with closed doors. Go out with friends who have the same goals and respect each other's choice of purity.
2007-03-21 18:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by VW 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Jesus would want you to find a boy you have more in common with.
2007-03-21 18:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Laura H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only true path is that of Homosexuality and Lesbianism!
Follow me my child.
2007-03-21 18:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋