i've started this thing with this guy over the net. we became closer and he said he loves me its been 2 months. i did something so that he could brake up with me. he totally hates me now. i felt this was the rite thing to do. coz i will never be there with him, we live 2 far appart. i did this coz i realised i do love him 2 and want him to be happy, i can't hold him, touch his face or wipe away his tears, i made him hate me so he could move on faster, and find some1 that can give him all that i can't. it hurts now and i miss him. but i did this so he can be happy. it was wrong of me to be selfish and let him only have my text messages. now he can find some1 to hold him and be there no only in spirit but in person 2. now i wonder if i made a mistake? am i a bad person?? and must i tell him the truth or let it be. plz help me
2007-03-21 11:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are not a bad person you are an awesome person for doing what is right for those you love, if you truly cant live without him call him up and explain maybe he will understand
2007-03-21 11:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Earl D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer may not be the one you want to hear but I'll say it anyway.
The distance between you has been there since the start - why use it now as the excuse for breaking up? You should have said something as soon as you sensed that his interest was getting romantic. You are definitely not a bad person. But you did err in judgment. You led him on only to let him go - not fair! Your intentions may have been noble but your ways were not.
If I were you, I'd apologize. If he finds it in his heart to forgive you and take you back, good for you! If not, have a good cry and move on. I hope you get a favorable outcome...just remember that the distance issue would always be there.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 18:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a bad person for playing games. Possibly foolish for falling in love with some guy online that you have never met. Tell him the truth if you want to but leave him alone.
2007-03-21 18:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wondering.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth!!!You might not be able to go see him but if he really loves you,he may come the distance and see you,who knows it could be a marriage.
2007-03-21 18:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk to him. Maybe say you just want to be friends. I would not have the guts to break his hear in the first place. I am a softy.
2007-03-21 18:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him truth and only then u will see how is he like
2007-03-21 18:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure thats a tricky one
2007-03-21 18:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by blondy42895 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your nuts
2007-03-21 18:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋