I was just wondering about womens' first sexual experiences, although a male point of view is also invited. How does it feel? Does it hurt a lot or just a little (like a paper cut pain or more than that?) Is it very enjoyable or not so much, or not at all? I've heard it's disappointing the first time, is it? Also, what would be suggestions to make the first time a little more pleasant and easier? Just my general ponderings. Input would be appreciated :)
2007-03-21 11:26:40 · 13 answers · asked by Belle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, my advice would be to try to wait until marriage. I didn't think the first time was painful but it depends if you're comfortable or nevervous etc. I wasn't nervous so maybe that's why it didn't hurt as much. Also, your gyno can give you a device that will stretch you to make the experience more enjoyable. I didn't think the first time was disappointing at all..... it was a very macical moment. But..... please try to wait until marriage!
2007-03-21 11:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by **** 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me it didn't hurt the first time. It just felt like a kind of weird pressure. It felt really good, though. I enjoyed it. I was surprised, 'cuz I thought it was going to hurt and I was going to bleed and stuff, but it wasn't like that at all. To make it easier, just make sure you're both relaxed and that you're well-lubricated. If it hurts too much, remember that you can stop at any time... just because you've decided to have sex doesn't mean you have to go through with it if you're feeling uncomfortable. If you're doing it with someone you really care about it makes it a lot easier. The experience varies from person to person, though, and you never know what it's going to be like until you try it... when you're ready. Good luck!
2007-03-21 11:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it felt like slamming my hand in a car door repeatedly and though i dont regret it i probably wouldnt repeated it knowing what i know now. i dont think there is a real way to make it easy but pleasant depends on what you enjoy if you like romance or adventure or have some other preference use those to make it special. it is really disappointing not at all like the movies and books.
2007-03-21 11:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear, it depends on the person. Personally, it was really really painful. But it's nothing to be afraid of. It's something that everyone goes through and once you get through the first time, it just gets better from there.
2007-03-21 11:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Magical!
Not to sounds lame or anything ha-ha but seriously it was the most intense feeling I have ever felt in my life! I'm in love, we had our first sexual encounter awhile back, I don't believe in sex after marriage...I believe that if you truly care & love someone why wait till your married? You two can start practicing for the big night right? ;) Aha, anywho you know it really didn't hurt so much...it really doesn't..just as long as you two start it off nice & slow n soft...Tell him to be gentle...I don't really think I can describe the feeling...It's to incredible to describe...Just really love the one your with ok? Don't let it be some one night stand...Save it for the special one...I don't think you should have to wate till marriage but which ever you believe...
---Love---
2007-03-21 11:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, give robson the 10 points, such a vivid description! =D
I wouldn't think it would be that painful if you were both relaxed and lubricated, etc. Tell him to take it REALLY slow though.
2007-03-21 11:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like warm apple pie
2007-03-21 11:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awkward and a little painful for the girl and guy. Don't rush into it.
2007-03-21 11:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey. well my first time was acctually just the other day and it hurts like hell if your ontop lol..soo its better for him too be, i thought it felt good after it was all the way in.
2007-03-21 11:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_girl_6954 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all its hyped up to be..you'll regret it if it's not with someone you love and love's you back. wait until your married, than you wont regret it.
2007-03-21 11:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥vix♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋