am i a b*tch?

Question

for saying no to him when i don't even love him?
ok, he told me give him a chance big mistake so now i can't seem to be able to get away from him. so i got mad and yell at his face that the reason why i can't be with him is that i don't love him, then he tells he never thought i could hurt him that way..
damn did i mess up by yelling at it at his face??

ok, yeah i yelled at his face but it was to the point were i has no choice. he was pressuring me to much and i exploded.

Answer 1

Of course not! Further, your English shows you don't bark.

What has happened is that he has a small psychological problem. He wants to love someone... anyone... and he chose to fulfil his desire with you. I mean, he does not love YOU, he wants to feel the cheery the sensation of loving someone.

If you gave him that chance, that probably was a mistake. Anyway, time will say what will happen between you two in the future. You didn't do anything wrong. You just exploded.

And, as a teacher, I have seen this situation so many times, that I really understand you.

NEVER let a man satisfy HIS needs of love with you. That's, besides pathetic, always a bad idea.

Answer 2

Instead of yelling at him, you should have kept calm and told him slowly and rationally why you didn't want to be with him. If you can, apologize to him, cause you probably did hurt him. You're not a b*tch...you just tweaked out a little. It happens to the best of us. If he doesn't get the hint and keeps coming after you, that's the time to get tough. If the situation gets serious, you can get a restraining order.

Second...Who the hel| has the nerve to call someone a b*tch just because of their picture?? Grow up a little. It's just an avatar. Y'all need to settle down a bit and quit attacking. Take your own advice and quit being rude.

Answer 3

Think

Would you like anyone yelling in your face?

You have the options:
1. apologize for venting - about whatever is behind your anger at him - and perhaps he will understand that you still mean no - and you will admire yourself more when you admit you are wrong when you may resemble that remark.
2. think - next time - you always have the option to walk away
3. think - next time - you don't want others to treat you that way, so choose to treat yourself with dignity and respect.
4. remember - NO - is a complete sentence.

GOD bless us always.
MBA-Boston University

Answer 4

Well, there's really never a reason to yell at someone, but he doesn't seem to think very rationally when it comes to wanting to be with you. Next time, just be honest and kind at the same time. If he doesn't get the hint, well, that's what restraining orders are for.

Answer 5

Just saying those words is enough to hurt somebody, let alone yelling it in their face. Yeah, that was kinda b*tchy. Just being honest. You could have let him down a little easier than that.

Answer 6

Nah.. you don't love him, he needs to get over it.. but I guess you could have done it without yelling at his face.. but if he was annoying and getting on your nerves.. rage and anger couldn't be withheld..

Answer 7

Um Yeah.would you want him to yell in your face

Answer 8

It seems like you went over bord but you did it for a good reason. The moron should have left you alone, and no you are most likely not a *****.

Answer 9

Yes you are, but only for yelling it in his face.

Answer 10

No, it seems to me that you've been trying to tell him that you don't love him and he just seems to ignore it. and you just got fed up with it and told him again, but in anger, It does not mean that you are a b----. you were just being honest.