MY 13 YEAR OLD SISTER lS HAVING ORGYS?

Question

My sister is 13. She had a few friends over for a sleepover one night [about 5 other girls] and they were down in the basement where we normally have our parties. My computer is down there, and i went down to get it, and i noticed they were all in one room with the door closed, giggling and making weird noises. I opened the door and there she was, with her 5 other friends, and about 3 or 4 guys abou ttheir same age, all having this huge freaking orgy in there, more graphic than anything i could have imagined! as i said, THEYRE 13. 7th grade!!!!!!!!! i lost my virginity when i was 16 and i regret it! [im 17] what should i do? do i tell my parents? call the police? im so confused! [i think the guys got in through the garage] please please help me!!!!!

Answer 1

I think you need to have a little talk with her. I wouldn't tell your parents or the cops because she will never trust you again if you do.

If you do say anything to your parents just say she had a couple boys over without their permission. Don't say what happened. That should get her in enough trouble and they might be a little more strict on her. You should probably keep an eye on your sister as well.

Tell her that it may seem fun but she could end up pregnant and have to raise a baby at the age of 14. I don't know... the more I think about it, the more I think maybe you should tell your parents.

Answer 2

Dont be jelous your sister was having a great time!!!!

On the real though,

If the guyz are over 18 please call the police.

Do you tell your parents?

I dont know, if your sister is doing such things there is no way you can stop her the only thing you can do is educate her, educate her about STD's and AID's and how it feels to have lost your virginity. Make it possible for her to feel comfortable to talk to you as you are her sister. But if you feel telling your parents is what will be more helpful do that . The goal is to avoid your sister catching an STD or worse AID's its not even having sex coz that unfortunately you cant do anything about.

Answer 3

In today's society, Girls mature very young, so, if your sister is as you say having an orgy, with some of her friends, where are your Parents? Have you, or your Mother told this Girl what might happen when they engage in sexual relations? also, getting Venereal diseases, having a child out of wedlock, and also, why didn't you stop this when you saw them doing that, and why didn't you tell your Parents, what was going on in the Basement. If there is no Parental control in your household who is to say that your Sister will not do it again?

Answer 4

Oh my...

13 aye? Dang...well do you know what I would do if I were you? I first would talk to my sister about it, have a longggggg talk about why she did it & lot n lots of details! Just talk to the poor girl. She's so young she maybe she doesn't know what she's doing? Explain to her about it...I know that if I were in your sisters situation I would HATE for my parents to know...I'd feel so ashamed....You could hurt her so badly...You should really ask her..whether or not you should tell your parents...Let her decide......Gah,,,I have a lot of sympathy for you Hun....Just what ever you do, try your BEST not to let that happen again. There are SO many risks & she really doesn't need to be having sex at such a young age MUCH less orgy's...I hope I've helped....

God bless...& take care..

Answer 5

Normally I don`t hold with telling tales to parents but there are exceptions and this is one of them.
Your sister is an accident waiting to happen and your parents need to know to try to avoid the disaster.
If you do nothing and your sister gets pregnant or catches an STD your parents will not be happy if they find out you knew what was going on.

Answer 6

Definately tell your parents, the police will do nothing if all the kids were under 16. Your parents need to be aware of it so they can take the proper steps, including getting your sister on birth control if she isnt already.

Answer 7

First, confront your sister, tell her that what she is doing is unsafe and not cool. Tell her she is too good to be doing things like that and if she thinks the only reason those people are her friends is because she does that, tell her those are not real friends. She could be having self esteem issues...

If she doenst respond, tell your parents immediatly... If she is having unprotected sex she could wind up pregnant, with an STD or even worse...

That is NOT normal behaviour...

Good luck... And try to be understanding when you talk to her... Maybe she just needs a REAL friend right now.

Answer 8

okay just calmly ask her if she was safe, if this was the first time, and if she is on the...pill. and be serious with her. a few girls at my school did that. you know what happened? one of them is pregnant. and they AREN'T EVEN 13!! they are 11. i couldn't believe them either. now she's not in school, cause she's friggin taking care of her baby!! a little 2 month old girl! don't let that happen to your sister. if it's the first time, then let her off with her biggest warning ever. and if she wasn't safe, then tell your parents faster than michael jackson chasing a school bus!!!!

Answer 9

Definitely tell the parents. That's just messed up. And I'm sure they wouldn't be too happy about people sneaking in through the garage. And what if your sister gets pregnant? I'm sure they'd rather know what's going on.

Answer 10

i think you should talk to your sister and tell your parents but not in an overly dramatic way just tell it like it is. then have her get on birth control and help her see that life is more than sex and what comes if she has sex teenage mother hood , std's and then try to help your parents keep an eye on her i think your parents should also talk to the parents of the other girls and the guys if you know who they were.