My mother is getting married July 15, 2007 and I am the only one who knows about it. My sister and my brother don't. I don't like my step dad because when my mother isn't looking he smacks me in the back of the head and calls my brother names like loser and gay boy. I want my mom to be happy but I don't want myself to be miserable until I am 18 and I move out. So do you have any suggestions of what I could do so that we are all happy?
2007-03-21 11:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by littleangel30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to tell your mom how you feel. Surely she would never allow a man to abuse you physically and emotionally in such a way if she knew about it. You and your brother need to get together with your mom and talk about it-- just the three of you. Since you're the only one who knows about the wedding, it's your responsibility to get everything out in the open before it happens. Your mom can't handle a situation she doesn't know about, so telling her is key. Hopefully she'll do the right thing and address the situation with your future stepdad so that he also knows how you feel and doesn't tread over your feelings. Good luck to you!
2007-03-21 11:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, I am soo sorry. have you told your mom. If she is a good mom she will make things better, it is better to have her know before hand, give her a chance to dump him, If she gets married anyway here is a way go get him to stop. I would write down every thing he is doing now and after marriage to you and you siblings, get a bound book where the pages are sewn, and write down dates and what he is doiing, and report him after a few months of marriage. If your mom doesnt care about you now and marries him anyway, she doesnt care for your happiness so give it a shot and you can report it later so you can live happier. Have a friends mom or school teacher help you find a book. It will stand up in court.
2007-03-21 11:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mother politely and tell her what's going on. he maybe only doing it as a joke, but let your mother know that you don't like him treating you and your brother this way. or next time he does things like this put him on the spot infront of your mother, like say hey??? why did you call my brother a loser and gay boy?
2007-03-21 11:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your mom about the man that she is about to marry and your brothers and sisters deserve to know that your mom is about to marry this man. Any ways your mom should ask you opinion about this before she makes a big decision like this. When my mom remarried she asked my brother and I how we felt about it before she did it we loved him so it was no big deal to us. Good luck and have a nice talk with your mom to work things out
2007-03-21 11:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by mommieof1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your mom about it... if he really loves and respect your mom, he should be the same way towards you and your siblings... be careful.. what if it gets worst after the wedding... should let your feelings out now while its still early
2007-03-21 12:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother & sister and tell your mother why you don't
like her b/f.....This is probably your only chance to complain...
2007-03-21 11:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be hard, but tell your mother and explain everything to her, and your siblings have ever right to know about the wedding.....
2007-03-21 11:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋