I have been dating for two years now, have dated about 12 different girls but I'm not clicking with anyone and starting to feel anxious. What have you done if you felt that way? What do you suggest that I do so that I don't just download on the next cute girl I see and scare her away?
2007-03-21 11:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by Kev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's alright for you to feel needed. You just want to feel complete and a relationship can do that. But you don't want a girlfriend to know that you want to feel needed. Right away, that will cause her to leave and that's what you're doing. I think you're just interested in having a relationship because you haven't clicked with anyone. Quit trying to hard. Just hang out with girls and switch stories. Don't rush into a relationship, because then it will slip away and get lost. Just be yourself and enjoy someones company and then you will start clicking more often! Just don't click too much!
2007-03-21 11:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool, dude. Sometimes good things come your way where you're not looking for them (this was certainly true for me and I found the love of my life). Maybe just take a step back from dating for a while. Just go out with friends and have some fun. Perhaps on one of those outings you'll meet someone really special. Where have you been meeting girls the past few years? Are you meeting them in places you enjoy hanging out? If not, you should try this. Chances are if you're hanging out somewhere you like or doing something you really like and you meet someone who likes the same thing, you might really hit it off. Give it a shot. Good luck!
2007-03-21 18:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe finding someone at the right time is the best answer. Do you believe in finding someone magically? Or is speed dating your thing. If you believe in spark and magic, speed dating until you find someone is not the right thing. Find out what you like in a girl. Make sure it's not too specific. If you don't know what you're looking for in a girl, just give it time. Maybe the someone that you're anxious to find is supposed to find you.
2007-03-21 18:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by rawr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most chicks do
2007-03-21 18:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋