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Question

So there's this guy that I like.Problem is, he's been burned my love BIG TIME and he's afraid to love again.How do I get him to open up to me and realize that he needs love, and I won't hurt him like she did? I've known him since I was little, but we just started talking again.HELP PLEASE! 10 points 2 BEST ANSWER!!

Answer 1

You can't change other people; you can only change yourself. Don't look for love with someone who isn't ready for love at this time. You are only setting yourself up for heartbreak.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

The best answer is subjective. The best thing that will help, with or without knowing the individual, is time. You pushing the idea of opening up without him wanting to, will potentially drive him away. Besides, sure a person can be hurt, very badly...but, if they do not have the kind of family (close personal environment) that deals well with conflict and life's issues, then you might as well know that you might be sitting for a while. Just be his friend and don't push the love issue down his throat.

Answer 4

That type of thing takes a really long time. If someones been hurt before it can take awhile to rebuild the trust. Be patient. Prove that you'll be there for him when needed. If he can sleep, tell him to call you, he's feeling, sick, tell him to call you, if he's stressed out or is upset about something, take him out and make his day.

You've gotta show that you've matured and you want to him to open up to you. But then again, you also have to make sure you open up to him. Go out for a great night, sit by a fire and sip drinks and just get into a really deep conversation, slowly ask personal questions, sooner or later he'll open up.

keep workin on it hun and all the best

Answer 5

The only thing that's going to heal that situation with your friend is time. You can be there in the mean while demonstrating that you care by what you do. Be patient with him, and spend as much time with him as he will allow doing things that you both enjoy doing. Don't push or rush him. He may take that negatively. Be sweet and non judgmental about his feelings and always listen to what he has to say, paying close attention. One day he'll say something to you that will tell how you should handle him, when that happens, it will be like a bell going off in your head and you'll know instantly exactly how to proceed. Hang in there it's just a matter of time. Good luck to ya.

Answer 6

Just ignore him, but privately spend some time imagining that someone exactly like him in every detail is strongly attracted to you. Figure out what it is that you like about him, looks, charm, romantic, spiritual, intellectual, emotional, charitable, natural, sexy, whatever. This exercise, the imagining will only take a few minutes, and is guaranteed to attract someone who is exactly like or BETTER than the aforementionned. Do you think it cannot happen? I dare you to try it. All I ask is that you post the result. I will ask the question on the 20th of next month and the month after that.

Answer 7

The best thing to heal old wounds is time and consistency. You need to know that it is truly a challenge to get that trust, in the end it is the other persons decision to trust. Being honest, understanding and communication are the three keys tell him I'm not like so and Please be as open minded as possible but also know I know it takes time to earn real trust. Relationships are truly hard work. Good luck in all you do
Chas

Answer 8

Start out by being his friend, let him know you are there for him no matter what. Talk to him about how he is feeling and help him see that it was for the best that she left.. Just keep trying to cheer him up and build up his self confidence, the love will come in time, right now what he needs most is a friend.

Answer 9

this is a tricky subject i too am having a problem close to this if you start to open tht door and lead him to a place that is safe but hard to get to and them ysomeone breraks his heart it wont end well but if you want to move foward then you need to tell him that ANd i know it will be hard, that you are here for him and that f he wants to be in a another relationship that you will support him and help him through it you need to assure him that noone will break his heart and even if he dosnt lbelieve you tell him that you will still help him to move on but tell him it is easer with a supporter like youreself Good Luck But remember the heart takes time to heal dont push him too far if he seems touchy give him time you have to look in his best interest not yourown

Answer 10

You got to start slow,pace yourself,you don't want to scare him away.Start off by being good friends.When you agree to meet him at a certain place ,make sure you are there.He needs to know that you can be trusted.A relationship is based on trust.You need to show him that he can count on you,that you will not abandon him.Keep encouraging him and be supportive of him.Allow him to talk about his hurt feelings ..if he wants to .Don't force him to talk about something that he does not want to. Be genuine in your
conversation (guys know when a girl is phony)Be patient ,he will come around.He will soon get to know you as you are today. Remember all good things come to those who wait.

Answer 11

Well start off by telling him. Tell him you would NEVER hurt him like she did. Tell him hes the ONLY one you have ever loved and that he shouldnt be afraid because you REALLY care about him. But first, start hanging out with him a little more than usual to make sure you REALLY love him. Hope this helped. 8D