Like when you go out to eat with a boy, or someone new.........do you shake....especially when you pick up your fork!!!!!!!!.....yea so this happends to me all the time.... is this weird......
2007-03-21 10:20:19 · 22 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might just be cold. You need to relax and build your self confidence . The old joke, they can't eat you, it's true the worst thing that could happen is you don't go out with that person again.
2007-03-21 10:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Thelma C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try double dating. The pressure to be a good conversationalist will be dispersed. You could drink some chamomile tea before the date and see if that will help calm your nerves. The boy is probably a bit nervous himself to tell you the truth. The more dating you do the more comfortable you will feel with it. And it's not weird. It's probably more common than you think. Don't let it stop you from dating. You'll soon see it gets easier. Go and have a great time!
2007-03-21 17:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been on a date with someone who I haven't been friends with for more than a year. So I've never had this problem. But that's kinda cute that you are so nervous that you shake.
2007-03-21 17:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called nerves. You're nervous, so you shake a little. Take deep calming breaths and remind yourself that they are just a regular person, and are probably as nervous as you.
2007-03-21 17:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But on the first dates my palms get sweaty and there's a shaking feeling in my gut sometimes.
2007-03-21 17:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you are not weird. Just try to take some deep breaths and be comfortable and totally be yourself. your jitters will go away when you realize that they are going to like you for who you are and you will feel more comfortable!! Good luck!
2007-03-21 17:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't shake. If you go out with enough boys, this should pass.
2007-03-21 17:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird to shake on your first date with a guy but on the contrary you should be your self and be bold
2007-03-21 17:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally normal, its just because your nervous. The more dates you two go on you'll get over it
2007-03-21 17:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....no but I think everyone gets a little nervous at times
2007-03-21 17:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋