My girlfriend went to a bachelorette party with her friends at a male strip club a couple of weeks ago. She told me a couple dancers hit on her but she just played them off. She is going back to the club with some friends this weekend. I notcied last week that she has one of the strippers on her myspace friends list. this means one of them gave out thier email address or myspace page. I haven't said anything to her because I want to trust her. Do you think I should say somthing?
2007-03-21 10:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry you are dealing with that right now. I can understand your uneasiness about the situation....I would feel the same way. I think your best bet is to keep an eye on the situation. It worries me just a bit that she is going BACK to the strip club after meeting a few fellas there. I am sensing that maybe she enjoyed the attention that she got while she was there....or that she may have an interest in one of them. I personally never found male strip clubs to be that exciting, I hear most of the guys are gay anyway and the routines that I have seen the guys put on are more comical and ridiculous looking than anything. If you have a myspace, you could watch her page for comments from the guy she met...take note if she continues to go back to the strip club...just keep an eye on things. When you have a reason to believe that she has crossed the line, confront her about it. You could also let her know that you feel uncomfortable with her behavior at this point and see what her reaction is. If she is defensive or uncaring, maybe you should rethink your relationship. I think it's important that two people together should respect one another's feelings.
2007-03-21 10:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally we ladies don't go for the stipper type. They usually have toooo much baggage!!! I doubt your girlfriend has anything going on with this guy and if she did she would try and hide it a bit better. Try and Trust her.........maybe make a joke about her Myspace account friend and see how she reacts but I don't think it's worth a sit down conversation.
2007-03-21 17:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by sdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! she went to a strip joint and your ok w/ that? if i had a boyfriend and he went into one id kill him!
2007-03-21 17:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Zu-Zu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say something if I were you.
2007-03-21 17:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!
2007-03-21 17:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋