I got ditched by a girl who had 5 kids from 5 different men.?

Question

I GOT DITCHED BY A WOMAN WHO HAD 5 KIDS FROM 5 DIFFERENT MEN.
I THOUGHT SHE WAS MY SOULMATE
WHO WOULD BECOME MY HELP MATE.
SHE TURNED OUT TO BE A JEZEBEL WHO DIDN'T EVEN HAVE THE DECENCY
TO EXPLAIN WHY SHE DUMPED ME. WHY DIDN'T SHE SHOW ANY REMORSE. I TREATED HER AND CHILDREN VERY WELL.

Answer 1

ha, it's good u got ditched by her! lets think about this for a second- 5 kids + 5 diff men! she thinks nothing of herself or others and she doesn't love! she probably doesnt know how to! people like her have had bad backgrounds and don't know how to control themselves! all u can do is forgive her and move on!

Answer 2

If I were you I would definitely go out and celebrate. You have no idea what was in store for you if you had stayed with her. She has no morals and that is why she has 5 children with 5 different men. Run as fast as you can away from this trollop and be happy that you escaped. Nurse your wounds a while, then start dating again, but this time choose wisely and I hope you meet the girl of your dreams who will appreciate you. A suggestion would be online dating. Try eharmony.com and match.com. These are reliable websites and see what happens. I'll bet you met this tramp in a bar. Stay away from bars for a while and try to meet women in different ways, church dances, singles dances, online dating and introduction. Best of Luck to you in the future.

Answer 3

Its because you were not strong enough. A woman like that needs a man that will provide for her not her providing for you. She already has five kids. And please dont take offense to this I am just trying to speak the truth. If you dont believe me do you think a mans man would ever put his problems or confessions of failure on yahoo answers for the world to read. Also I can tell that you a sensitive type guy maybe even a pretty boy type but the way you described her. I bet you would have done anything for her. And there in lies your problem. Instead of wanting to do anything for her, she wanted you to take action on your own. I hope you learned from this experience and I hope you will be more picky from now on and be a man. The best way to start is to never settle. Only accept what you actually want.

Answer 4

Oh Honey, this is a blessing in disquise. What you should do is run and not walk away as fast as you can as she may change her mind. Bare in mind that nobody who knocked her up stayed with her either.

The second thing you should do is get a good counselor. Anyone who could see this girl as a potential mate needs to have more self esteem. You need to talk extensively about your personal standards and you need to learn to protect yourself from trashy golddiggers.

Then after that try to do somethings to work on yourself like go to school, get a good job, find some hobbies, travel, do community/charity work, read alot. And just to put the cherry on top ready Dave Ramsey's "Total money makeover" this will help protect you and your finances. This will help you from falling prey to typical money pitfalls and help your decision making. Because when you are a more complete person you will not be attracted to women with this kind of baggage and nor will they be so to you.

People gravitate to their own level, and trashy women with no self esteem and even less standards would not partcipate in such activities. They want very little out of life unless someone gives it to them. Remember you can't make a silk purse out out of a sows ear.

Answer 5

Well let's see. Most of these people are being a little rude at your time of need. You are sad and heart broken. If she cared for her kids, maybe she would have kept you. But you're going to be alright. You will find a girl who's going to sweep you off your feet. My uncle just got out of a messy divorce and was really heart broken but found a woman who he loves a lot. So just look around carefully for that right woman that will treat you right.

Answer 6

Maybe because she found another man. I would've never even got in the relationship if I knew that she had 5 kids with 5 different men. That right there goes to show you what kind of women she is.

Answer 7

This story is bull ****. A college degree does not guarantee a house after 1 year and a killer car. If that were the case 30% of people would be driving around in porsces. The high school nerd would also not have the social skills to find a hot girlfriend if he spent 20 years of his life buried in books. Even if he had a decent job.

Answer 8

A woman who has 5 children from 5 different men would look to most people as a person who is careless with her choices in life. This in itself should have warned you. Your problem is not this woman, it is how you lack good judgement when it comes to picking women. Although it appears her children lost out onthe good relationshjp they had with you, I have a feeling they are used to men coming and going out of their lives. Next time be more selective in the women you choose to involve yourself with. Best of luck to you!

Answer 9

I am wondering if now she is pregnant with your kid and now moving on to her next man. If that's not the case she obviously treats men like crap. All we can do is to feel sorry for her kids that she is putting them through her sh#@.Child welfare people should be told, and you look out for yourself and move on to someone more caring.

Answer 10

well duh man wouldnt you know that after she told you that shes had 5 kids with 5 DIFFERENT men!! I bet she didnt have an excuse i mean where did those men go?!?!?!?! did ya ever think of that! Shes one of those girls tha tjust dont know what shes lookin for and shell keep on dithchin men until she find the right one!