why do men stop calling? honest male answers pls?

Question

i understand that sometimes men jus wanna have sex with u & thats it and afterwards they have no contact with you, but why would a bloke vanish into thin air after 3 months of dating? going from i really like u and wanna be with you to not so much as a text or a phone call ever again? with no obvious reason...any ideas from u honest guys out there?

everything was goin fine...spoke every day nearly...not so much as an argument, and he even told me he really liked me and didnt want me to hurt him! oh the irony! lol

Answer 1

He doesn't want to hurt you and he's got lousy breaking up skills. Good chance it's not you and he's found someone he is more interested in. Maybe your relationship got stale or maybe he has found intrigue elsewhere. Maintaining a relationship is often about how you keep it fresh.

Answer 2

How many times is he doing it? Me and my fella do slightly place-play each and every now and lower back, and the schoolgirl has consistently been a company commonly used. That and the naughty Sweedish maid, and the kinky bored older houswife, oh and the police woman grow to be pondered, then he have been given a Parking cost ticket and went right off the assumption. Anywhoo; that's a primary male delusion to be with a nubile youthful woman. The older the guy gets, the extra youthful the female has a tendency to be. basically visit any social club with 60yrs+ adult men in there, and notice what I recommend. whether that's getting too plenty, he might have a concern. If he's basically doing it in specific circumstances, that's place play. Get your self on ebay and look for some clothing and spice issues up. might make him think of roughly some thing else for a whilst too!

Answer 3

It depends on a lot of things but I stopped seeing a girl once in exactly that fashion. I cut it off clean and totally, never to be heard from again.

I liked the girl well enough, but everytime we were together she handed me another problem. My life didn't have any problems. I had no STDs, no debt, a nice apartment and plenty of savings. On the other hand, she had herpes, owned a home that was a complete disaster, had a bunch of pets, hated her job, had a mountain of debt and no savings. The last straw occurred one night when I suggested that she move some of her 401k money (I have some experience in that field). She had no interest in her own finances what-so-ever. Additionally, we had already had a small argument and she had collapsed into an emotional basket case. After she went home that evening, I thought to myself, "this is going to develop into nothing but one huge headache." I never called her again and I refused to take her calls.

Answer 4

Well I think maybe you are falling for the wrong guys here. Where you actually dating him ??. Or did he say he liked you and you were playing mind games and he figured he had enough of it. Now if you where actually going out and happy together...I can only think of one reason.. that he was stringing you along until the girl he really liked showed interest in him.

I think you deserve better...so don't bother with him. I'm sorry though that he put you through this crap.. if you want a new friend or to talk.. contact me.

Answer 5

there are a great number of men that avoid resolution at any cost and very much prefer to "fade away". I used to be that type, now I abhor them.

And, consequentially, to answer the underlying question...the best way to "fade away" from someone is to distract yourself with some new toy. When I was one of those types I used to love picking up some new bird to be my toy until I forgot about the previous one.

It's a prick thing to do, but it used to seem so much easier than having to actually tell the person you don't want to see them anymore and deal with the guilt involved.

Answer 6

Alpha males hit and run.
Emo males won't stop calling.
Newfound christians usually have that...new-found religion and will use it as a scapegoat.

If it's not appearance, it's 'i'm really screwed in the head. really. i can't tell left from right anymore.'

For every other guy, I can't say. I'm putting myself on this list as an emo guy.

Answer 7

He was to big of a coward to tell you he was moving on. He probably had feelings for you and didnt want to see your pain or feared you may angry or something but in the end he was a coward and your better off in my opinion.

Answer 8

He is Married, on the run, in major debt, running from drug dealers. Deported. Or more than likely a lying toad.

Answer 9

The fear off commitment and the honeymoon period is over,also knocking up the notches on the bedposts.

Answer 10

Because he's a player. He's seeing someone else. He wasn't man enough to tell you that the relationship wasn't what he expected so he thinks that by ignoring you, you will go away. What a jerk.