My boyfriend hangs out with a lot of girls and they really don't like me, they give me dirty looks and they totally ignore me and one even gets upset with him! What do I do?
2007-03-21 10:11:50 · 5 answers · asked by Mickey James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats really hard.. because they probably wont change.. they dont like the fact that you are trying to hang out with them and stuff.. this happened to my friend and they started making up rumors about her.
2007-03-21 10:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything however I will say that you may want to think about whether these women are really his friends. After all, if they are just friends then why would they respond to you like that? I have found that this type of reaction usually occurs when there is some kind of sexual history between them. Also it is your boyfriend's responsibility to check his friends & let them know to respect the relationship he's in currently... if he doesn't and you have told him how you feel (and use concrete examples like as soon as a dirty look is given... guys respond a lot better when they can see what you are talking about rather than thinking it's some mysterious "female thing" which is what they use to avoid actually dealing with the situation) then you have to decide whether the relationship is worth putting up with the behavior.
2007-03-21 10:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo477 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably jealous. I would either ignore them or confront your b/f about hanging out with the other women. I'm not one to go flirting or hanging out with other women when I'm in a relationship. I think it's good to have other sex friends, but not to the point to where they're coming between you and your relationship with the one you care about, especially if it's hurting the other person.
2007-03-21 10:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by cobra427jah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...to be honest with you, the reason that his GIRL friends don't like you is because they are probably jealous. If his guy friends don't like you then they probably think you are an idiot.
2007-03-21 10:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Not everyone can get along in this world unfortunately.
2007-03-21 10:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rewind 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋